Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years
Xavier is right with getting another girl and letting her know that you are seeing someone, but I would be less obvious about it. If you tell her straight up she might see through you and think that you are doing this just to make her jealous!
Originally Posted by ronthepen
Men like to see things black or white, whilst women tend to see things in different tones, which is something that you can use to your advantage. Just imagine you are all of a sudden mysterious and the information she is lacking she has to fill in with her imagination. This gets her curious, thinkging about you and jealous if there is a female involved. Fear of loss.
Do you have a female friend that she does not know anything about? Spend time with that female friend and if she call you out on it tell her that she is a friend and that you care about friends.
One thing that really hit me that she broke of with her ex, is dating you and then goes on a blind date. It doesn't sound very coherent from her side. It seems to me that she feels that she has you. So it is good that you did not go that night for sex.
Make the impossible possible!