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Thread: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Quote Originally Posted by ronthepen View Post
    - I've found someone that is a better person than my lost love. I'm not officially with her yet. She's got a BF (again, I'm an areshole).

    I will probably try something to reconnect with her one last time this Spring, if I'm not in a relationship with another gal.

    Believe me, I know I can win her back. I feel it. Just like I knew I would get her when all of this crazy story started...
    No offense but you sound awfully confused, sentimental and idealistic.

    Snap out of it. Don't wait until spring. Call her up now and just ask her out for a good time. Don't bring up the past. Start afresh. Do it now. Or let it go.

    Her feelings will of course have changed and she may not be as sentimental about it as you. You don't need to read her mind but you need to read your own and understand women better. The truth is you actually don't know if you can win her back or if you really want to win her back. 'If Im not in a relationship with another girl'. That doesn't sound like conviction to me. 'I've found someone that is a better person than my lost love. I'm not officially with her yet.' Confusion and idealism.

    It sounds like you're in denial and from her perspective she will not see you as a strong man that is a stable lover and provider. You have never made that happen and are still stalling to this day. It's no wonder she never replied to your email.

    I know I'm being harsh but you're in limboland. Love happens or it doesn't. Make it happen or move on with your life.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Theres a bit of work for you to do.i feel your girl wants to give you a chance based on tolerating this for long.its as if she wants to open but you keeping shutting it down with minor issues.leave the past in your dynamic in the past.why? you have talked about it many times already.doesn't suit your situation.there are times where that may have worked but , create attraction more..

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Hey Ron, long time no see it's good to 'hear' your voice again. @whitedragon yeah it is harsh but you are right. He's right Ron do it or get out of the way!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Okay, I have to reply to this. First, I HAVE to say...You being honest = RIGHT move. I'm a girl and I'm obsessed with this stuff. OBSESSED. I think this forum is amazing and the idea of grouping girls into categories based on how romantic they are etc. is actually an amazing concept and strategy.

    Don't smother her in this delicate period. Right now is going to make or break everything in a woman's mind (seriously). I have personally experienced this. When I have room to reach for a guy, to think about him and compare him to other guys...it's ALWAYS a turn off if he is persistent with the contact. You've shown her you are romantic.

    I am going to re-read what you wrote and give you my feedback after considering it and reading the entire thread. I just had to say: I LOVE THE BELIEF you have in you and her. You have no ideaaaaa how rare it is these days for refreshing, honest and emotionally raw conversations.

    That said, don't over-do it.

    Questions:
    1. Have you kissed or been close to kissing ever?
    2. Do you two text?
    3. What is her current boyfriend like?
    4. Has she cried in front of you?
    5. Do you know things about her no one else knows?
    6. What is she like as a person? If you told me more about her specifically it'd help.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    whatiswrongwithme seems to have great insights and a true huge fun.i think your method may not be bad at all.you may be active here more often if you will.you seem to like plain honest approach.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    I'm way too honest for my own good...

    I'd love to post more. I figured I'd be awkward and come off like a weirdo

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Depends on what made you feel that way..there may be nothing wrong with contributing..theres this thing

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    I'm way too honest for my own good...

    I'd love to post more. I figured I'd be awkward and come off like a weirdo
    No such thing as weird on these forums, so post to your hearts content. There is "stupid" though so careful with that. I'll be the first guy who makes sure to go out of his way to let you (or anyone) know that was a stupid question.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    lilsting might have been hurt by a woman.still lil bro.your input is welcome.my one itis helped me with my style.by listening to what she said and picking it out,some girls complimented me,was very excited.i lost her but got help on this forum and i'm back here.Rocnation!

    you dont look like you will ask question but am sure we'll help.

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    Default Re: I want my hopeful romantic HighSchool Sweetheart back after 16 years

    Quote Originally Posted by whatiswrongwithme View Post
    I'm way too honest for my own good...

    I'd love to post more. I figured I'd be awkward and come off like a weirdo
    It doesn't matter. Forums like this are mostly about sharing diverse experiences as well as specific methods for dealing with 'love and relationships'. Often in life what is right or wrong is ambiguous so a wide variety of contributions is beneficial no matter how weird.


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