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    Corpzmaker91 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default The girl i like says she is too busy to talk..what now?

    First post and thread for me, so Hello!
    I dunno if this qualifies on this forum, im taking a shot in the dark.

    Ill give u a short background to this...

    Im coming out of a deep depression and a Social Phobia, I lost a lot of friends. One night I was drunk on Omegle, a chatsite, and I found this girl...

    A girl who have helped me a lot in the recovery, I cant even describe how much she means to me right now. She is the total opposite of the girls in my region, I don't see how I could find a girl like her anywhere..

    We hit it off right away and we texted every single day for 2 months and we even talked on Skype one time which was great, I made her laugh and I think she liked me a lot. But then she started university, and she has a lot of hard homework... so she didn't have time to text much. And meeting in person is NOT an option at this point.

    She was never a fan of talking about her own feelings, she have told me she loves me, im just a friend, im more than a friend.... she is so hard to trust and u never know if she is kidding. But she knows that I have feellings for her, and that I want to keep talking and see if we get a chance to meet soon.

    Last weekend we kinda had a fight, and 2 days later she says she is just too busy with school and church events to talk, and can only talk once a week. She tells me what without a sadface or anything... just cold. Now im stuck here kinda lonely again, and she cant be contacted, she has to text me...

    So im just confused, does she like me more than a friend? Or am I a disposable internet guy who she is trying to get rid of? ...And most importantly, what should I do to get her back to texting?
    I cant stop thinking about her, I miss her all the time

    So uh.. yeah... advice is much appreciated

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    Default Re: The girl i like says she is too busy to talk..what now?

    Hey Corpz!

    Wow thats a situation right here bro!

    Im wondering though... What were you guys fighting about? Perhaps you were too pushy?

    And does she live close to you, i mean are you two able to meet up without having to buy an airplane ticket?

    You said she helped you with your depression and anti-socializm.. How?
    Could it be that YOU helped YOURSELF out of all that by TALKING TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT? lol just an idea.

    And you guys been talking for 2 months? Cool! About what though? Your depression? Because that can be quite depressing for the person listening.

    In general I would just be patient. I mean she COULD just be busy and unable to listen to you whine all day :P

    Now go outside and find a girl that can do what she did, or better, but in PERSON!

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    Corpzmaker91 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: The girl i like says she is too busy to talk..what now?

    Quote Originally Posted by swerve View Post
    Hey Corpz!

    Wow thats a situation right here bro!

    Im wondering though... What were you guys fighting about? Perhaps you were too pushy?

    And does she live close to you, i mean are you two able to meet up without having to buy an airplane ticket?

    You said she helped you with your depression and anti-socializm.. How?
    Could it be that YOU helped YOURSELF out of all that by TALKING TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT? lol just an idea.

    And you guys been talking for 2 months? Cool! About what though? Your depression? Because that can be quite depressing for the person listening.

    In general I would just be patient. I mean she COULD just be busy and unable to listen to you whine all day :P

    Now go outside and find a girl that can do what she did, or better, but in PERSON!

    We didnt talk much about my depression, just stuff u usually talk about with a girl u like, her life
    and stuff we had in common.
    We argued about something small, but she made it into a huge thing, cant remember rly, probably about that she was busy playing games when i needed a boost.

    I told her i would give her space if she was busy, after the fight.

    And airplane tickets are needed

    Thanks for the response!


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