Hi guys, first time poster long time reader. Great forum btw.
Ok so im in the military and work with this absolutely smoking hot girl, you know one of the types every guy here wants to get stuck into. Great body, great personaility - the lot. Easily the hottest girl here.
Anyway we were having leaving drinks for a few people who were off, bunch of us having a good time, drinking, karaoke etc..
Basically I went back to this girls room and carried on the party until early in the morning, long story short we ended up hooking up and I stayed at hers until work the following morning. To be honest we were both pretty drunk and I'm a bit disappointing in my performance, although I might be looking too much into it..
The problem is, she has a boyfriend. She told me she was single on the night, which I took as an ioi, although my sources inform me that shes still with this guy. The day after she texts me thanking me for a great night, although we should keep it to ourselves as she doesn't want the rumor mill around. I thought things were OK as we had been chatting during the day, winding each other up and the usual stuff.
I stupidly text back saying I agree about keeping it to ourselves, and asked her what she was doing next weekend.
I'm good friends with this girl and don't want to ruin that, plus I'm not sure about whether its a good idea for me to chase someone I work so closely with with the potential of getting hung out. Honestly I'm thinking shes annoyed at herself for cheating on her guy and looking to cover it up. The impression I'm getting anyway..
What do you think the best course of action is?