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    Default Can I claw this back?

    Hi guys, first time poster long time reader. Great forum btw.

    Ok so im in the military and work with this absolutely smoking hot girl, you know one of the types every guy here wants to get stuck into. Great body, great personaility - the lot. Easily the hottest girl here.

    Anyway we were having leaving drinks for a few people who were off, bunch of us having a good time, drinking, karaoke etc..

    Basically I went back to this girls room and carried on the party until early in the morning, long story short we ended up hooking up and I stayed at hers until work the following morning. To be honest we were both pretty drunk and I'm a bit disappointing in my performance, although I might be looking too much into it..

    The problem is, she has a boyfriend. She told me she was single on the night, which I took as an ioi, although my sources inform me that shes still with this guy. The day after she texts me thanking me for a great night, although we should keep it to ourselves as she doesn't want the rumor mill around. I thought things were OK as we had been chatting during the day, winding each other up and the usual stuff.

    I stupidly text back saying I agree about keeping it to ourselves, and asked her what she was doing next weekend.

    No reply.

    I'm good friends with this girl and don't want to ruin that, plus I'm not sure about whether its a good idea for me to chase someone I work so closely with with the potential of getting hung out. Honestly I'm thinking shes annoyed at herself for cheating on her guy and looking to cover it up. The impression I'm getting anyway..

    What do you think the best course of action is?

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    Default Re: Can I claw this back?

    Right now her two biggest concerns are (a) keeping it discrete, and (b) making sure that you aren't just trying to hang out with her because she puts out.

    Make sure there is not doubt about both.

    Don't ask her to hang out until she knows you don't want to fark her. (catch 22 in that it's difficult to make that clear without hanging out)

    Maybe text her something like:
    "Hey, just to be clear I had fun the other night, but given the circumstances I think it should just be a one-time thing. Hope this doesn't make you get all wierd and awkward [insert pre-established nickname here] see you around."

    This tells her that you are aware of the need for discretion and you won't try to fark her. She'll probably contact you, if she doesn't, I'd say give it a week or two of just seeing eachother at work in a non-wierd way (like it never happened) then hit her up to hang as friends.

    Under those conditions a "one time thing" could easily repeat or three-peat
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    Default Re: Can I claw this back?

    Bit of an update, iv just been carrying on at work with her like nothing happened, still trying to flirt with as much as possible though and were still getting on really well.

    Iv no idea whether she is still with the boyfriend, another colleague of mine asked how things was going between them and she explained that they had split up and she hadn't seen him for a few weeks. Bare in mind this is what she said to me on the night.

    Now I know that is a lie as my other friend who knows this guy explained that she had drove down to pick him up and they were together that weekend.. Including having sex unfortunately..

    Iv no idea what to do with this girl, is she saying these things in front of me on purpose? Is that an ioi?

    Im thinking just chill for another week try to build up the sexual Tension and make out im not bothered. THEN maybe ask her out..


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