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    palecurls is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default girls excuse is that I am to nice....

    So Ive been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, she moved away maybe 2 weeks ago and we've been texting allot ever since. She sends me wake up texts and gnight texts as well as pictures of herself. She knows that i liked her and want to date her we had a make out session at a party where i was drunk but she was sober and I f closed her when we met.

    She said she wanted more but she was drunk at the time and i thought of it as a drunk "I love you". but now that shes moved and I'm still talking to her thru text and phone calls but randomly one day i get a txt saying, I have a boyfriend he asked me and I was to nice to say no........ sorry.

    I honestly don't know if this is a Sh1t Test as she said she had a BF when we first met or if she just wasn't interested in me anymore (she was still always texting me 1st) or if shes being legit. I don't want to quit her if its a test but i don't want to fail it either I'm not so attached to not quit tho.

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    Default Re: girls excuse is im to nice....

    do you have her on facebook?

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    palecurls is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: girls excuse is im to nice....

    yea she freinded me when i first met her

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    Default Re: girls excuse is im to nice....

    Sounds like she's just removing the responsibility from herself. Like as if she didn't decide to have a BF, it was the fact that she's nice that made it so she didn't have a choice. She cares about you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but to keep you in the romance-zone would be geographically impractical.

    I think it's not a Sh1t Test. I think it's a LJBF - rather than stringing you along in the friendzone and pretending like she'll still be sexually available.

    If it is a sh1t test (or even if it's not) treat it unaffectedly and just resume normal conversation - this will show you're Alpha and keep attraction high. I'd do something like sarcasm + convo:

    "Oh no a boyfriend I'm devastated but seriously tho [I'm happy for you]. I just saw that new horror movie and I can't sleep so I'm just gonna be up all night cleaning the house with the lights on"

    Maybe omit the [I'm happy for you] if it feels too needy
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    Default Re: girls excuse is that I am to nice....

    If she says you're too nice, you're probably too nice.


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