My first GF / First Makeout / First Sex / First anything really - I was also her first anything - was when I was 19 and she was 18 (like four years ago). She lived in my nieghborhood and we met in a dance class at college. What sux was we were both virgins (didn't know how lol) and I was crazy-religious-dogmatic then - so we didn't do that much.
She's HB9 (is now a professional trapeze artist) and I'm about done kicking myself since getting a handle of PUA lol
We hung out once or twice since breaking up (she's been touring with a circus company) and I've always sort of imagined myself meeting her for lunch sometime after college when we both have started our careers, have lunch, see where it goes - like a RomCom.
Right now she is performing (and living) 2 hours away from where I go to school (we're both now 5+ hours away from home and close to New Orleans.
The last contact - since hanging (a walk in our old neighborhood) out once like a 1.5 or 2 years ago was her liking a very smart political comment I made on fb - prompting me to think about her.
But I digress, MY QUESTION:
Am I correct in assuming that I should NOT contact her about hanging since we're in similar areas because two hours away is NOT so very close (especially for an HB9 XGF) and a fb like is NOT and IOI (especially from an HB9 XGF) - ??
IF this were likely to be rekindled would it ONLY be done so after I'm out of college, have a car, have a job, and financially well off - ??
I'm not goin AFC about it (at least I hope) just got reminded by fb about this re-kindling idea I've had in the back of my head for a while. My 5 year plan is to spend the next 2 yrs finishing school, refining my game, raising my value, getting a job, starting grad school; then spend the next 3 years looking for a HB8 or HB9 with a good personality - maybe it'll be her, maybe it won't.