Some background info,
I met this girl about a year ago. HB 8.5. FK closed her the first night I met her and we've developed a best friends/FWB type of relationship since then. She's a single mother, two kids, young too, but we're happiest together. There is no doubt about that. Her past ex fiancee/gf (she is bi) have thrown an ultimatum on her that if we were to remain friends, than they would not be in the picture. She trashed both of those relationships to keep the friendship we have, and we're still hooking up time and time again. I have had to cut off two women I was seeing also because I was also given the ultimatum.
We've always had these rules that we don't kiss goodnight, don't sleep in the same bed, stuff like that and we have maintained these rules from the start. However, I had a very dark and reckless past that scared her off as a potential boyfriend. Now that has all turned around, I'm a year away from graduating college and I'm making a killing with my current job.
She and I still hook up maybe once a week, but we will go out with other people who we consider potential spouses 'dates' or whatever. But she and I have never personally done anything of the sort. The usual stuff in the game is not working.
I can NOT make this girl jealous. I have railed other women in the same house as her, and she does not get jealous at all! NOT AT ALL! This woman is sexually open to threesomes with me and they have happened time and time again. We have admitted that we do love each other, but I want this girl to fall in love with me and to be with her. That is my goal.
I have ignored her for a few days at a time, made myself unavailable, slammed other women, etc. I have done this same routine in the game many times over with girls that I want a relationship with, and they always take the bait out of competition/jealousy. This time, it isn't working because I don't think that I have done the above long enough, and to be honest, I do get AFC time and time again over this girl which must stop.
Having you guys constantly being able to read the progress of this, will help me stay Alpha if that makes sense. Kind of the 'all eyes on me' sense of things. We talk nearly every day, and that is about to stop. Not in a shitty manner by any means, I'm going to just simply be way too busy to talk to her with work, and with school, and other women.
I am usually the one that initiates sex and I've never been turned down, she occasionally initiates it / hits me up for booty call, whatever. The goal here is to put fear in her that she is losing me, which in turn will make her pursue me to the fullest extent, which will ultimately lead to a relationship with her.
I'll update this once a week, maybe twice to let you guys know the progress I'm making here. I am open to all critique, any technique that my assist in this endeavor, and every criticism.