So I met this chick 2yrs ago and we liked each other but I ended up pushing her away because during the time i was jobless. I found out she dated a bunch of deadbeats and she took care of them and they treated her bad too. I didn't want to be one of her exes. After I went and got a job and got back on my feet I found out she went and dated another deadbeat. I lost my chance by then. I ran into her again and found out she's been single for 3months now I have her # and as a friend on my facebook but I haven't really tried to attempt any contact with her. Then the past weekend I went to a bar and met one of her friend her friend told me that she's been kinda asking about me.
So what I want to know is if I should make contact with her and try to get her to come out with me. I know there's alot of guys throwing themselves at her right now and i don't want to be one of those guys because I don't want to seem desperate. Any advice on how i should approach this? what should i say or do to get her attention my way for a night or two? I feel like this is a second chance for me and I am however really attracted to her. I'm just not really good a re-sparking the spark. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciate it.