Re: PUA that bumped his head and need help!
Stop stop STOP! Lol
One thing I want to mention is that emotional states are contagious. If you are insecure about the situation then you run the risk that your behavior will convey that (which it did). If you are confident and KNOW that ex has nothing on you (he is an ex for a reason) then your behaviour will convey that. If it is strong enough then she will accept this emotional state aka frame.
Another thing is DO NOT tell her that if she loves her ex to just let you know so you can move on. That is NOT alpha. An alpha would always assume attraction and know she isn't going anywhere unless YOU want her to. You are a man and should protect your woman emotionally and physically. This may sound old school, but that's only because society has been shaping women to be more masculine and men to be more feminine. Now everything is out of wack!! Now if there is a masculine woman with a masculine man, or a feminine woman with a feminine man it's just a bad mash up. SOMEONE will eventually assume the dominant role and it just may be her instead of you.
Understand that our attention/focus is considered energy. When you put your attention so much on your situation you add energy to it and possibly unnecessary energy. Whatever you put your focus/attention on, you give it power. Have you noticed the situation getting worse ever since you started to show your insecurities and KEPT showing them?
Everyone does need their space. You don't always have to talk with each other. Also she has a CHILD. If you don't have one then you have no idea what it takes to just keep your sanity lol. So while you have the free time to ponder your situation with her, she probably does not have that luxury since her energy (focus/attention) goes towards her child. Which is probably why she is so frustrated with your insecurities. She may be thinking "I've got more important things than to deal with this stuff." You have to be a man and watch over your own feelings. At least most of the time. So take care of your woman. And don't bail on her because of what you THINK might happen. Hang in there til something ACTUALLY happens and don't speculate. How will you know if she does something? Trust me, as long as you aren't suspicious and cause her to try harder to hide what she's doing, it will always come to light.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."