Re: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?
Why talk about the breakup you are not her girlfriend. You should be her rock. When she has a bad day you make her laugh, when she is sad you make her laugh, when she is angry you make her laugh so she is calm etc. As you can see your duty as a man is to be positive and to protect her. So you should have done that.
Personally I dont trust women who leave their boyfriend for another guy because she will do the same if you get with her. Since you are replacing him she will mess with someone who was doing what you were doing in the beginning which is to be less emotional and have fun.
Try to make her laugh. Talk about other things and pretend as if nothing has happened. I would try through text to get some communication going after Freezing Her Out. During your Freeze Out stage talk to other women. I think if you have a wing/bro it would be a good time to hang with them because you will be thinking about her when you are out sarging so your wing should provide you additional support through this. After freezing out stage has ended talk casual with her, be friendly and chatty through text and try to meet with her face to face as soon as possible.
Things you need to look out for or keep in mind? She might get back with her ex during the freeze out phase, or she could be doing it now. Some other guy replacing you and actually doing a better job of not slipping up. That will make it hard for you to get back in the door.
Good luck bro.