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Thread: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

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    Default BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

    Hey guys,

    So I was successful in creating enough attraction to f-close a girl w/ a BF, now it seems I have a buyers remorse/option attachment problem.

    I really like this girl, so I'd like to date her regularly. She knows this, and therefore decided to break up with her BF so we could try things out. However, her break up conversation was 3.5 hours and there was a lot of crying and pain on both sides.

    I was trying to be as comforting as possible (new frame, future project, etc.) last night when we met to talk about the break up. However, she is now pissed at me for "making her feel this way." She broke off our plans for today and said she is hanging out with a guy friend. I just said "lol k."

    So my plan is to freezeout for a couple days. Good plan? What else should I be doing in the meantime? How do I reapproach?

    I actually feel hurt over this, so anyone's advice is appreciated.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

    Why talk about the breakup you are not her girlfriend. You should be her rock. When she has a bad day you make her laugh, when she is sad you make her laugh, when she is angry you make her laugh so she is calm etc. As you can see your duty as a man is to be positive and to protect her. So you should have done that.

    Personally I dont trust women who leave their boyfriend for another guy because she will do the same if you get with her. Since you are replacing him she will mess with someone who was doing what you were doing in the beginning which is to be less emotional and have fun.

    Try to make her laugh. Talk about other things and pretend as if nothing has happened. I would try through text to get some communication going after Freezing Her Out. During your Freeze Out stage talk to other women. I think if you have a wing/bro it would be a good time to hang with them because you will be thinking about her when you are out sarging so your wing should provide you additional support through this. After freezing out stage has ended talk casual with her, be friendly and chatty through text and try to meet with her face to face as soon as possible.

    Things you need to look out for or keep in mind? She might get back with her ex during the freeze out phase, or she could be doing it now. Some other guy replacing you and actually doing a better job of not slipping up. That will make it hard for you to get back in the door.

    Good luck bro.
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    Default Re: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

    I'd be careful with this girl. Seems she still has feelings for her previous boyfriend and now she's avoiding you for a "friend" of hers. Freezing Her Out seems like a good plan and then maybe text her or something in a couple of days.

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    Default Re: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

    Well what'd you expect to happen? That she'd blame herself? Lol, come on. Who blames themselves when they can push the blame one someone else?!?
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    Default Re: BF destroyer successful, now she's pissed at me?

    Cody was right what did you expect to happen? That old saying is be careful of what you wish for because you might get it In this case you did get it, and now regret it, and she is mad at you for initiating her breakup. Personally I am not a big fan of the boyfriend destroyer technique because there are too many women out there who are available. The technique I feel should only be used when the feelings are so strong for both of you, and her boyfriend treats her like crap but then it should be weighed against true feelings or lust. I would move on, and let her sort her feelings out, and if she comes back to you then it was mutual in the feeling area but if not just say to yourself I enjoyed it while I had it, and move on. The boyfriend destroyer is a lethal technique which should be used with caution because you are playing with anothers emotions and feelings. You used the technique, and now possibly someone is using it or something similar on you so now you know how it feels. This may not be what you wanted to hear but whenever you venture to hurt someone whether intentionally or not we usually get hurt in the process as well. Good luck bro!


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