Here's my story. I'll do my best to be brief and clear.
I applied the things I've learned from the pua community, and before I knew it a girl I was flirting with fell for me. Like a good boy I was the one making the first physical moves (make out on the 2nd date), planning our dates, avoiding being needy, leading the relationship, and having a blast. We dated for about 2 months and she seemed to love being around me. After 2 months I realized I didn't really love her so I broke up with her.
Now that the background is set, here is where I would like some feedback. On one of our dates, we went to the park for some stargazing. Too bad it was cloudy, so we just kinda messed around on the jungle gym and whatnot. She kept fleeing away from my presence to go somewhere and do something else. Like literally, just got up and ran off a couple yards. I felt like maybe she was testing me to see if she could take leadership from me. Do you guys agree or do you think I was just taking it a little too serious? Later, after chasing her around for a bit, I got a little fed up and got in my car and left her there alone. After about 10 minutes I drove back and she texted me "I can't believe you left me! Well, I just left the blankets on the bench and started walking" I thought oh goddamnit I blew it. Now she's going to call her dad and have him come pick her up or something, I'm in for it. So I whipped out my flashlight and started looking for her in the dark. Finally I texted her and told her my phone was almost dead so she should show herself. She told me to get the blankets and get back to the car. So, like a guilty child, I followed her orders. As I was walking back to the car she popped out from behind a building with a big grin on her face. I threw the blankets at her, and tackled her playfully. She kinda teased me for getting outfoxed by her. I was relieved that she wasn't really mad about me leaving her, but later in retrospect I realized that she had toyed with my emotions. There she was, having an evil laugh while I was searching around for her and looking like a complete tool. It greatly bothered me, but I never brought it up because I didn't want it to seem like it did. Other nights she would steal my cellphone and hide it places, and I finally told her that it was cute and funny at first, but now it's getting irritating. I started getting very angry about her testing me and that's when I broke up with her. My general feel was that she was doing these things and a few other things to test my reaction, and that I was failing, but I never told her. Was I taking things too seriously, or should I have put my foot down and confronted her with how I felt about her conduct? Or am I the one to blame for failing to keep my "alphaness" in the midst of her tests?
My apologies if the post is too long. Don't feel like you have to respond only to my questions either, I would appreciate anything that comes to mind as you read this.