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    Default To Keep Her Unattached

    This is actually more of a "how NOT to get a gf" question.

    Last night I closed a HB7 (blonde, lower-middle class white chick with a rough past/family life) she hasn't confided in me, I can just tell.

    How do I keep her from getting too attached? I'm thinking just be honest with her early that I'm only looking for somethimg casual. Sound good?
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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    That's exactly what you need to do.
    If you know for sure you're not interested in anything serious or long-term, tell her up front.

    I made the mistake of not doing that a couple times, & ended up with girls soooooo attached that it was extremely difficult when I cut them loose. (Not to mention, it made me feel like a douche!)

    But women appreciate & respect honesty... and surprisingly enough, sometimes knowing that there's no extra pressure or expectations can make for some really fun times!



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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    i tried that, it doesnt work, because now she wants something she cant have. Can you tell where im going with this. But i'll work with you to come up with a solution, i'll ask some of my girlies that im seeing at the moment and may just suggest what i want out of them lol
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Iv got the same issue ATM I meet up with girls that I n close, build attraction but I'm not looking for a relationship at all ATM cus I'm in uni it's just too stressful lol. But I don't know when it's too early to bring this up and I feel like you sound like a dick when they are like 'so are you just looking for casual sex or something?' honest answer is yes and I think that there's nothing wrong with this but a lot of girls seem to disagree :L

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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Yes be honest and upfront

    Here's an old thread that discusses my approach entirely

    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...exclusive.html
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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Let me back up and explain more, it really does work if you approach it right

    After shes interested but before you have sex

    "hey I just want to be up front, I'm in date mode right now"

    It works wonderfully, I balance MLTRs constantly. Or multiple friends with benefits, depending on how you think of it. Be up front and cool with it and they will be too
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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Going to try this next soon, I'm hoping to god it does not result in me having blue balls :L lmao

    Linking x

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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Thanks guys! This girl is a 19 yo code2 clinger btw. I get what you're sayin Tyrone - kinda the downside of cat-string. T-Mal I like the idea of no-strings attached, if I stay casual and alpha, and engage her logically does that increase the chances of it going smoother? Same here Linking, seems like every girl at uni simultaneously understands the practicality of the no-strings hook up (logical) while also wishing for the "we met in college" fantasy (emotional)

    Hmm... now to formulate a plan before the 'where are we' conversation...

    Oh, and another wrench in the engine is I'm gonna tell her something like "I'm not really into public displays of affection, I just like my private life to be private, it's no body else's business what we do." = preselection without being branded as "taken"
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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Let me back up and explain more, it really does work if you approach it right

    After shes interested but before you have sex

    ..........Huh. And does it still work if we've had sex a couple of times this week? Lol Perhaps if I go the "I was in a long (13 month) relationship until I moved here (in August) and I'm not ready just yet." - ? or will she just hear me saying "I want to sleep around" ?
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    Default Re: To Keep Her Unattached

    I find they like to claim that this is fine and there's no problems then her and all her mates wana castrate you when they see you k close another girl in town I don't do it in front of girls I'm seeing but they always find out....news travels fast here :L and even tho we have discussed that we ain't exclusive I still get in trouble somehow lol......they never finish it with me, just like to cause bloody drama :L my theory is they know as I do that makeup sex is the best

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