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    GreatDane is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Lessons learned - share your examples.

    Since breaking up with my girlfriend, I am evaluating what I did right and what I did wrong, so I can be better in the future. My general feeling is that I did things right in the beginning of the relationship; flirting, not being nervous, showing her an exciting time, not being needy, pushing the physical boundaries, ect... But I also feel like there were times when she did things that annoyed or angered me, but I didn't want to express it because I was afraid of ruining our time together or appearing too emotional and weak. I was afraid of conflict basically. I think I became too nice and she lost respect for me because I didn't really stand up for myself like I should. Thankfully I had to balls to be the one to end the relationship before it dragged on even more. I know that you guys have made mistakes like this in the past, so I'm asking that you post examples of them, what you did to fix them, and the results you saw when you changed your behavior.

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    Default Re: Lessons learned

    we are constantly calibrating and re-calibrating our game, i have so many things that i have changed in my game that it would take me a year to list them all. recently i had an episode of buyers remorse, i kissed the girl the day i met her see the link
    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...llege-hb7.html
    unfortunately afterwards i just could not get a k-close, she liked me, but i made a big deal out of getting the k-close and accidentaly made the mistake of Kino escalating too much and doing what i now see as desperate to try to get a kiss from her, i had developed feelings for her before she developed feelings for me. in the end i got friendzoned
    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...ent-wrong.html
    thats how it ended now i don't k-close on the first date or on an insta date. instead i get the number and wait till the comfort stage to k-close, also i fumbled in the comfort stage and showed too much interest without properly screening her learned alot from it so i have no regrets

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    GreatDane is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Lessons learned

    Could you explain what you mean by screening her?

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    Default Re: Lessons learned

    by screening i mean forcing her to qualify herself to me, i should have used more false disqualifiers. basically i thought she was my dream girl and i didn't force her to work to be with me as much as i should have. we all have our mistakes,but as long as we learn from them they aren't mistakes they're experiences


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