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    Default after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    after i get a gf i tend to be really sweet to them and i stop gaming them all together. i tell them everything and always say nice things to them. most girls like this except my last ex but should i still game them a little bit after we date?
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    Default Re: after i get a gf

    Yes you still need to game them. A number of things can happen to help this along. A few arguments can take the rosy sparkly sheen off a relationship - you see each other in true colors. You have to stand your ground as a male or they will walk all over you. You tend to not be as mushy when hearing your partner abuse you verbally (and women can say some incredibly cruel things, especially when hormonal).

    Then you might find the girl starts getting possessive. 'Really your out drinking with Bruce again? When you gonna spend time with me??'. Drink with Bruce and take her out for dinner the next night. Women don't own your soul and can't stop you from having friends. You want a soulmate, not a soul prison warden.

    I think also you can still use many PUA tactics within a relationship no matter how long or short it is. Jealously, shit tests, rewards and punishment, Push Pull - all still work. Women know this fine well. For many guys after they have slept with someone they have conquered the mountain and start reverting to AFC, but for many women they have different goals beyond sex. You really have to pay attention to what women want. There of course is some compromise on both sides but you can't change who you are. The ultimate love is meeting someone who accepts you for who you are. So don't change who you are.

    I am always amazed at some guys...they will talk all macho and then the phone rings and its their girlfriend and they start talking in a cutesy hushed up voice. WTF? Your not her teddy bear, your a man and thats what they like. That said often in an argument a women will defy the laws of logic so your best tactic is not to try fight back like a touch guy but simply minimize how long you argue for. Be the smart guy. Sometimes you cant stop the rain, but you can craft an umbrella.

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    Default Re: after i get a gf

    ok yea she said she couldnt stand being nice all the time. so ill keep this in mind
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    Absolutely!!

    Always continue gaming your girl to some extent. That's how you keep the relationship balance in check.

    Not only does it help keep things fun, fresh & exciting... but it also helps improve your overall game & keep it sharp!

    It's a Win / Win situation!


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    Default Re: after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    yea i should of just kept doing it. heck thats how i got her to date me lol i guess i just got comfortable and didnt think i needed to any more
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    Trust me... I've been there & done that too!!
    (The things you learn as you continue through life...)

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    Default Re: after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    yea lol but now im trying to get her back kinda im trying to be as cool with it as possible but she keeps saying maybe it should be over forever ugh girls kill me lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: after i get a gf

    This got me rolling. The part about guys becoming a total different person when their main lady calls.

    I have a friend who is a total a$$ with everyone. But when his girl come around he is like 'yes baby, you sure, okay anything for you sweety ... you are so cute and awesome'. I am like wtf. WTF happen to this guy within 2secs? Was he just abducted?


    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Yes you still need to game them. A number of things can happen to help this along. A few arguments can take the rosy sparkly sheen off a relationship - you see each other in true colors. You have to stand your ground as a male or they will walk all over you. You tend to not be as mushy when hearing your partner abuse you verbally (and women can say some incredibly cruel things, especially when hormonal).

    Then you might find the girl starts getting possessive. 'Really your out drinking with Bruce again? When you gonna spend time with me??'. Drink with Bruce and take her out for dinner the next night. Women don't own your soul and can't stop you from having friends. You want a soulmate, not a soul prison warden.

    I think also you can still use many PUA tactics within a relationship no matter how long or short it is. Jealously, sh1t tests, rewards and punishment, Push Pull - all still work. Women know this fine well. For many guys after they have slept with someone they have conquered the mountain and start reverting to AFC, but for many women they have different goals beyond sex. You really have to pay attention to what women want. There of course is some compromise on both sides but you can't change who you are. The ultimate love is meeting someone who accepts you for who you are. So don't change who you are.

    I am always amazed at some guys...they will talk all macho and then the phone rings and its their girlfriend and they start talking in a cutesy hushed up voice. WTF? Your not her teddy bear, your a man and thats what they like. That said often in an argument a women will defy the laws of logic so your best tactic is not to try fight back like a touch guy but simply minimize how long you argue for. Be the smart guy. Sometimes you cant stop the rain, but you can craft an umbrella.
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    Default Re: after i get a gf, should i still game them?

    yea ill admit to it i do that its sad lol i should stop
    im on a different level


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