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    DublAK2 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Met a model, how can I make her invest more?

    Met an HB11 online dating. She's a model, by far the hottest girl I have ever dated and one of the hottest chicks I've even seen in real life. Very AFC of me, but I don't know why she selected me.

    First 2 dates-dinner and drinks, went awesome! 1st date kiss close. 2nd date she slept over my apt. but she laid it down pretty heavy that there will not be any sex for a while. Made-out with her plenty though.

    3rd date: I have found that she is god awful with her phone by this point. During our short 3 week romance there have been plenty of times where I was convince she was not going to text me/call me back, but sure enough 5 hours later or the next day she would. (Stick to the never double text rule fellas). Anyway, tentative plans for Thursday were previously discussed, I give her a ring around 5. No answer, texts me back

    5:30 her: I'm out shopping with my friend at Kind of Prussia mall. Want to get together when I get home? (Note* that mall is huge and far away so it means big shopping excursion)
    7:10 me: Sure let me know when you get home.
    9:30 me: Stores kick you out yet?
    9:45 her: I'm coming home I'm sorry. Just had to get a lot done
    9:45 me: No big, just makin sure you didn't die.

    blah blah blah. She calls me at 11, just got home. Gets changed, takes care of her dog, gets over to my place around 12 finally. Keep in mind I tried to get a hold of her around 5pm originally. I also have class at 8 the next day. Never once did she give me a time estimate as to when she was going to get home. Maybe she didn't know. It bothered me a lot, but she is hot so no big deal right?

    3rd hang out kinda sucked in my opinion. We pretty much just drank and watched tv. I used a lot of Kino, but she was not as into kissing me as she was the 2nd date. I even went full on caveman and pulled her on top of me. She never resisted, but I don't think I reved her engine either. She did reach for my hand a couple of times and she ended up laying on top of me while she watched tv (I initiated that though). But all in all she seemed distracted and not that into talking to me or kissing me. She slept over again, still no sex. Texted me a little after she left and wore my t-shirt home (she changed into sweat pants and my shirt at my place, I didn't get her naked).

    Does anyone know what I should do to get this girl to invest in me more. I obviously impressed her enough to make her feel comfortable to sleep over. However I want her to be excited to see me and I feel like I rewarded bad behavior Thursday night. Any good resources on push/pull or just getting her to think I'm awesome and that she is lucky to have me? Cuz I don't get the impression she feels that way.

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    Wi11Pac3 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Making her invest

    I'm new to the forums and PUA noob but maybe you're lacking access to an emotional connection with her? Maybe something has happened in the past with a previous boyfriend and has her spooked on doing anything with you.

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    Default Re: Making her invest

    all wemon love shopping, don't be too upset that she stayed out late to shop, as for getting her to invest, it seems as though you need to play hard to get, through in some negs and false disqualifiers. spend more time with her to build the level of comfort/compliance that you need in order to close

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    Siedways is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Met a model, how can I make her invest more?

    Wow and HB11? Sounds like your're doing pretty well. Try this


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