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    ok so we have talked for a long time and we say we love each other babe all that stuff. if i bring up something about us she gets really cold. she said she wants a relationship but not right now. she keeps telling me to find another girl that can appreciate me. she also says move on if we get into a arguement or if the relationship gets brought up. idk shit test? or just messing with me? any advice ?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: trying to get this girl that is difficult

    Obviously a $h!t test. There was another thread on here that talks about the same thing, dont know what its called but in a nutshell be her rock. You care about how she feels but you shouldnt care. What I mean is that be the positive part of her life. Women are emotional and you are going to always have rollercoaster rides with a woman even in marriage. Thats why they say relationships are hard work.
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    yea it just effects me when she talks about other guys on the phone with me. she will be talking to a friend and ill over hear her saying sexual things about other guys and how she would like to have fun with them. i get mad at this she acts like it shouldnt matter what she does because we are not dating. i see it differently that if you really love someone you would not do anything with anyone else. idk she is pretty up and down its hard to always be cheerfull with her
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    Default Re: trying to get this girl that is difficult

    If she's telling you that she doesn't want a relationship, I wouldn't read much into it other than "she doesn't want a relationship." I'm not into the idea that women are so complicated as to not say what they mean (at least on occasion). I definitely doesn't sound like she is ready to invest (more ready to walk away at any fight). You might try reaching out to one of her friends to figure out what is up. Clearly she's not open to telling you, but it'd help you to know what she is so averse to a relationship at the moment. She's already expressed that she doesn't want to discuss it. Right now it looks like you both have different goals. Don't get played. Find out what is up. There are many good reason and many bad reason for her to be acting like this. Best to figure it out.

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    Default Re: trying to get this girl that is difficult

    well i use to get really mad pretty fast and she did not put up with it at all we have dated 2 times before. we were either really happy or mad at each other. so i think she is being careful this time around. just bugs me to think that any other guy could be with her and i would never know. she is in new york right now and will be for awhile.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: trying to get this girl that is difficult

    Just an observation but i think this girl is really hurting you emotionally, she either knows what she is saying affects you and is doing it with intention or she doesn't care and isn't investing as much of herself to you as you are.

    from the comment i just wrote above you have to ask yourself a few questions, and none of us need the answers just you. They are:

    1. Is she worth the pain?
    2. Is she willing to invest and commit to you?
    3. Is she ready for the same thing as you?
    4. How much time do you have to waste in order to get what you want?
    5. If you do invest the time and heart ache, will she come through?
    6. Is she really the one you love or is she just the ultimate challenge that has your emotions twisted?
    7. Are we really compatable?
    8. you've been on 2 dates/ is that love or limerance?
    9. Is the risk worth the concequences?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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