Re: trying to get this girl that is difficult
Just an observation but i think this girl is really hurting you emotionally, she either knows what she is saying affects you and is doing it with intention or she doesn't care and isn't investing as much of herself to you as you are.
from the comment i just wrote above you have to ask yourself a few questions, and none of us need the answers just you. They are:
1. Is she worth the pain?
2. Is she willing to invest and commit to you?
3. Is she ready for the same thing as you?
4. How much time do you have to waste in order to get what you want?
5. If you do invest the time and heart ache, will she come through?
6. Is she really the one you love or is she just the ultimate challenge that has your emotions twisted?
7. Are we really compatable?
8. you've been on 2 dates/ is that love or limerance?
9. Is the risk worth the concequences?
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.