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    jayjay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with this cute girl who never dated

    Met this girl a month ago. Started talking on FB and then text and eventually meeting up and hanging out. After party one night, she say me kissing another girl and was obviously upset.

    Next night, we talked and confessed our feelings but she said she was not sure what to do with the feelings because she has not been in a relationship before. She is afraid of boys to the point where she doesn't liked to be touch.

    Believing that I am in a advantageous position, I made the mistake of moving too fast. The past week, I asked her to lunch, study and just seeing her for ten minutes on days she is busy.

    Each time I tried to advance Kino, (hold hands, hug) and try to advance as delicately as possible. Until, I received a call last Friday, saying I gave her too much pressure and got the "let's just be friends" speech.

    I have had major success with various girls in the past. And usually I just move on cos I usually don't care but this one I have had strong connections with to the point I think I want to be serious (another mistake...) I want to turn things around. I just need a little guidance as I haven't dealt with a first timer and taken being friendzoned so hard....

    sorry for the long post. and long time reader...but finally serious enough to make a post.

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    Default Re: Need help with this cute girl who never dated

    you need to let her know that you can't "just be friends with her, freeze her out and openly pursue other wemon until she either gives up on you or has to have you back, there is no easy way out of the friendzone

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    jayjay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with this cute girl who never dated

    Thanks.. A Freeze Out and start hanging out with girls for time being will help me not think about her so much.

    I am the only one that has gone this far with her and in the meantime, i wont have to worry about other suitors hopefully.

    Any advice on someone as hard to get as her??? Normal pua would seem to take me the opposite direction.

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    jayjay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with this cute girl who never dated

    How long do i want to Freeze Out a girl like that?
    Last edited by jayjay; 11-03-2012 at 02:58 PM. Reason: Repeat


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