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    Frankthetank is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Wink Help! Where do i go from here...

    okay so, met this girl in my University, she is pretty cool. Started texting and flirting. After like a week it died down because i was like if you dont want to text me cuz you have a bf you should stop now she said something like lol i want to keep texting you.. she has a bf of like a year but theyve been on a break for like a month. anyways. 2 weeks later she texts me asking for some homework. after alot of flirting and sass giving i give her the homework on the condition that she buy me lunch. She agrees i go out with her and she brings 2 friends. She pays, we have a good time, laughs etc.. we spend around 3 hours in the restaurant. Then they both invite me back to their residence to watch tv. its around 10... i go back and i come home at 11 30.. mind you its her and her roomie who i had never met before. now i text her that i had a fun time, we kept texting until 430 that night.. i didnt respond pretending i went to sleep to initiate the next day. Next day i arrange another date to watch a tv show (her fav show) she will help me catch up on it. Anyways i arrive at her place around 11ish. me her roomie and her are in her room, after 1 episode around 1 her roomie leaves. then its just me and her. we watch and as time passes it gets more and more physical touching Kino, and cuddling. i give her a back massage and by the end of the night she was okay with me touching everywhere. she was even starting to cuddle with me (initiating it).... i left around 5 and as walking out the door i said give me a kiss and gave her a smooch.. then i was like "id feel bad if i spent 6 hours cuddling without a kiss, here gimme another *kiss*" then i left.

    A couple days went by still minimal texting... her bf came this friday he drove up to "talk things over" and i was like alright. Mind you she hates her bf she told me "psycho is coming up to talk... she said thank god he doesnt live here.. " i invited her to my party on friday she said she would be with the bf. and he would be over friday night. anyways i drop it and dont really text her alot while shes with him. out of nowhere she texts me saying "hows the party?" i respond with some witty comment... anyways im just wondering where i go from here.. help out please.


    THANKS

    FRANKTHETANK

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    qdown is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help! Where do i go from here...

    from here you should just move on and occupy yourself with other women who are free of the boyfriend jail sentence. Thats really all you can do. If she really hated the boyfriend to the degree to what she said to you she would be trying to see about you and your parties and not be tagging along with him. Women are masters at securing plan b's and her telling you she hate him is just another way to keep you in idle just in case things dont work out. Dont knock her for it, but damn sure dont put things on hold for her either. Now that you know shes back with bf keep in touch as long as its cool but the key now is to not be too available to her. When she texts or call you dont have long conversations with her, cut them short most times. DO NOT talk to her about the problems shes having with boyfriend. And if she gets with you again make sure shes investing in you, NO trading like the homework deal she has to be investing rather thats sex, cooking, her buying lunch whatever you feel is a substantial investment. Just my experience when dealing with such a situation. Be careful with this one you dont wanna fall into the friend zone.

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    snowingbordman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help! Where do i go from here...

    I am in the exact same situation as you bro. If you're really frustrated with your situation like I am you need to use the BF Destroyer Technique. Basically you have to remain dominant in the situation. If she breaks up with him it has to be for you, you're the thing she should be chasing after rather than her keeping you stringed along for later.

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    ct1006 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help! Where do i go from here...

    To be honest, I feel like I am in a similar situation. After trying to game this girl, we ended up cuddling, kissing, as you say she was ok with me touching her everywhere.

    Thing is...she isn't in a relationship but isn't interested in one. That right there is almost as if she DID have a boyfriend. So...I know that feel bro.

    Anyways, I believe that you got her interested, you just need to keep her interest. I think qdown might be right in saying that you need to keep busy or at least seem busy. Don't be too quick as to always return her texts.

    If she asks what you're doing say something like, "on my way to your place so we can finish what we started." "If she says something like, what are you talking about??" say, "kidding, working out right now. lol." keep it light and playful. she'll be wondering why you're not giving her your attention.


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