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Thread: How can I pick up a girlfriend in Canada (I am from Vietnam)?

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    Smile How can I pick up a girlfriend in Canada (I am from Vietnam)?

    Hi everybody,
    I'm an international student (19 years old- Vietnamese).
    I haven't ever have a girl friend in my country (I don't have any experiences yet)
    Now, I come abroad to study in Canada.
    My question is : Is it possible to me to have a Canadian girlfriend?
    My problems are: I don't speak English very well (I meant I cannot understand American jokes or make a girl laugh)
    I feel extreme nervous when talking to English speakers as well as girls

    Therefore, how can I achieve my dream, huh?
    I need your advice so much,
    Thank you with my best regards,

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    it's not rally about what u say but how u say it work on your inner game body language and frame
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Thank you so much, xavier1
    P/s: what should I do if I fall in love with a blonde girl who I am afraid to start the talk?

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    Look u will only fall in love with her if u about her often so DON'T! You have mad inner game issues, i could just tell. Look keep busy, don't think about her, game other girls for practice. There aare alot of good threads here on how to game. Learn the art get as much tail as u can and then when the time is right u will fall in love and get married.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    Thanks xavier,
    What do you mean by gaming girls for practice?
    !!!!
    p/s: Can you please give me links that teach how to game or something like that?

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    To be honest, you have a huge wall to overcome. Confidence is the biggest issue here. It's going to be tougher for you because not only do you not have much experience with girls, you do not feel confident in your English as well.

    First, learn as much as you can while you are here. Study harder and make friends so you can practice your English. In about 2-3 months, your English WILL get better with practice.

    Continue to practice your English and at the same time work on building your confidence. Try to make friends with people who seem confident or seem like they are always sure of what they are doing. These people are natural leaders. PUA's or people in the game usually call these guys Alpha Males. You can usually tell who is an alpha male in a group, no one chooses that person, it just naturally happens. Try to model yourself after this guy, his attitude, his body language, the way he talks to people, even the tone of his voice.

    If you practice your english and practice being "alpha" eventually, both will come natural. Finding a girlfriend is a WHOLE nother chapter. So first you must work on those two things. English + Confidence.

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    Thank you so much, ct1006.
    I very appreciate your advice. Keeping in my mind advice above!!!,
    Thanks

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by yahooms7 View Post
    Thanks xavier,
    What do you mean by gaming girls for practice?
    !!!!
    p/s: Can you please give me links that teach how to game or something like that?
    I mean u don't have to go for the 10's immediately. Do it on some of your girl friends see how they reat to it. Do it with avrage looking HB's ones that don't intimadate you.
    As for the links sorry i'm busy search on this forum for any thread started by the allstars and anything we've replied to
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend?

    Have you thought about doing ESL lessons? As an international student your college/university or the community may offer them for cheap, if not free. Your confidence in this particular area seems to be your biggest downfall right now, so why not work on your weakest thing? Comfort in communication is a huge step in building confidence. Also, I'm sure there are other girls around who speak Vietnamese, maybe look online for Vietnamese events or groups in your area. You can start to build a social network from there.

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    Default Re: How can I pick up a girlfriend in Canada (I am from Vietnam)?

    Quote Originally Posted by yahooms7 View Post
    Hi everybody,
    I'm an international student (19 years old- Vietnamese).
    I haven't ever have a girl friend in my country (I don't have any experiences yet)
    Now, I come abroad to study in Canada.
    My question is : Is it possible to me to have a Canadian girlfriend?
    My problems are: I don't speak English very well (I meant I cannot understand American jokes or make a girl laugh)
    I feel extreme nervous when talking to English speakers as well as girls

    Therefore, how can I achieve my dream, huh?
    I need your advice so much,
    Thank you with my best regards,
    Where in Canada are you man?
    There is a large Vietnamese community in Toronto. Practice there until you get more confidence. Also, the "I don't speak English card" can work well. It gives you a certain mystery, but I think for it to work you need to improve your body language.


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