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Thread: Need help with a girl I've known for years, where to start?

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    Default Need help with a girl I've known for years, where to start?

    So I've known this girl for probably over 10 years, and after moving a few thousand km's away, she has now ended up living 20 minutes down the road from me.

    I text her from time to time, but can never seem to turn it into a date or anything, so here I am pretty well giving up.

    She's a cool chick and when we text and talk we get along great, just having dramas taking it to the next level and getting her to come out with me, without forcing it too much.

    The problem I'm having is giving myself a reason to contact her, without just flat out asking her out you know, for whatever reason that approach seems overly seedy to me.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Need help with a girl I've known for years, where to start?

    You are not a pick up artist u just want simple advice and a cure to your problem ...........Here goes, try to understand:
    -You are in the friendzone
    -you don't have attraction
    -you have to dhv yourself and dlv her to gain attraction
    -you have to use triangles to escape the friendzone
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Need help with a girl I've known for years, where to start?

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    You are not a pick up artist u just want simple advice and a cure to your problem ...........Here goes, try to understand:
    -You are in the friendzone
    -you don't have attraction
    -you have to dhv yourself and dlv her to gain attraction
    -you have to use triangles to escape the friendzone
    X-man is right, you need to man up and tease her more.
    try to push pull and not be boring.

    I have a feeling you texting is going like this
    you: hey sup
    her: nm ::insert mundane bullsh!t:: u?
    you: same old just ate pancakes

    this is a dead conversation with no fun involved, make it fun and be random and edgy.


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