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    Default Re: Shy Girl, stalling?

    Batman,

    one question please. Stalling for a week. Was this a massive IOD?

    I dont get it.

    I asked her when I was having a phone conversation with her.

    I made her laugh and shit on the phone. She said I was funny.


    I dont get it...Maybe I failed her shit test somewhere...

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    Default Re: Shy Girl, stalling?

    It's possible that it may be a shit test. Hard to tell because I don't know what kind of woman she is.

    Being that is a 50-50 chance it could be an IOD or a shit test I'd say just act like it doesn't even exist and acknowledging it would only get in your way. Always assume attraction and push through.

    Better to assume she's into when's she's not, than to assume she's not into you when she is. Plus she could always get into you later if she isn't at the time.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    A little BG -- I asked her out last sunday 4th of Nov. She farking stalled for the whole week. I told her I will call her after 2 days on 6th Nov. Which I didnt.

    Using LINE IM.

    On 7th Nov I sent her this message

    7:47 pm Me -- Today I had a very good day.
    ME -- A dog ran after me.
    ME -- So I ran alot. I had good exercise. ^^

    NO RESPONSE. She did not even read it. (LINE has a system that shows if the receiver has opened the message or not)

    8th Nov (She still did not open message in morning too)

    12:46 PM SHE -- (sends me sticker of laughing at me)
    12:49 PM ME -- (send her sticker of me kicking her in the face)
    12:51 PM ME -- I will bring that dog in front of your house.
    1:06 PM SHE -- (she sends me sticker of a girl with mouth closed doing and as if dodging something)
    1:15 PM ME -- haha. I think you are afraid for street dogs.
    1:40 PM SHE -- hahahaha.

    I did not respond. But I will call her today this evening.

    Question

    1) Why the fark did she laugh? I see girls laughs alot via text for no farking reason. I personally did not find it funny. Girls are that crazy eh. Or was it a "pity laugh"?I do give out "pity laughs" to girls I'm not interested. hahaha

    I will continue to update this thread.
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    Default Re: Shy Girl, stalling?

    Stop right there.

    I am the last person to say anything about analyzing....but who cares why she sent a smiley. (This isn't meant to criticize, but get you to "zoom out" from your situation)

    You are the most important person. Trying to do things to get her attention is not what a man, who sees himself as the prize, would do. Again, not to criticize. Just to give some perspective.

    It's time to flip on a very powerful attraction switch. The willingness to walk away. If a woman is at all interested and knows you're walking away because of her, it could inject a huge jolt of attraction. If it doesn't work, then you just did yourself a favor.

    Tell her, "Look, I like you, but I'm no one's dancing monkey. Not sure what game you're playing, but I am not interested. I wish you luck in your ventures."

    If that doesn't pull her back from the dead then nothing will. That's the truth.
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    Default Re: Shy Girl, stalling?

    Hey Batman,

    I really sincerely genuinely want to learn.

    You can criticize the shit outta me if you think I am not following in the lines of PUA. Honestly, I've been ingrained with alot of BETA shit when it comes to women. Being from Asia and old traditional value family BG, we treat women like an untouchable fucking virgin princess. This has been ingrained in me as a kid. And lots of terrible romantic hindi movies. Where a guy fucking chases a woman in the mountains. UGH!

    Other areas being better such as work brings out the alpha in me.

    I would rather someone be direct. Reality's a bitch and harsh as hell due to competition.

    Thank you for your continued post. I'm learning. Every women I meet from here on, I will always have the Mindset "willingness of walk away" that's right "fuck you"

    "You are the most important person. Trying to do things to get her attention is not what a man, who sees himself as the prize, would do."
    Basically you are saying "get them to chase you. To get your attention" This can only be done, if I dhv enough.

    Other PUA's around here says something like "if u dont contact her for long, she will lose interest" "send her a text from time to time so as not make her forget you" Thats essentially trying to get her attention is it not?
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    Hey Batman,

    So I go for a second date with this cute HB 7.5. This is the other chick.

    We were in a skybar, very impressive place. She was impressed by the decor.

    We had a bottle of wine. I think she kinda had fun and was laughing here and there.
    I regret to say i was not able to muster up the courage to kiss. Never kissed her.

    This is our second date in three weeks.

    She is a shy girl yet open and smokes cigarettes.

    I totally regret not kissing her. I did Kino like play with her hair, put my face close to her ears and rubbed my shoulders with hers. My face was really close to the side of her face while she was playing facebook. Ah, but I couldnt kiss.

    Question is, did i fuck up? I am living in Thailand, and she kidna has a western Mindset, well she fucking smokes for one.

    Usually, people fclose or kclose by second date. I fucking hesitated to kiss.

    She is the last of the 3-4 chicks I've been gaming for the past 3-4 weeks, meaning the rest of the chicks I gamed are all done with me (learnt from my mistakes). I'm going out tomorrow and day after to sarge and get new numbers.

    But in your opinion, what do u think about this chick. I fucked it up didnt i?

    Next time under any circumstances, no matter what type of girl she is, shy/fucked/extrovert/ceo of citigroup/ fuck it! I will do the "leap of faith" the "Its not or nothing at all moment" the "risk everything to gain everything moment"

    Lesson learn t. Its more painful not to escalate and kiss than it is to do so....
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    Default Re: Shy Girl, stalling?

    Just read your post and I think you need to blend your game in with Thai traditions and customs on dating. I have travelled and lived in Asia and currently do now off and on for a number of years and currently in a LTR with an Asian woman. Asian women are more reserved when it comes to dating foreigners because of the stigma attached to them by westerners that they are easy and submissive. You may find some Asian women in the U.S. with the same attitudes because of this.

    What she is doing is that she wants to see how serious you are or do you just want to be with her to fclose and then leave. With the number of foreigners there looking for sex (military and civilians) can you blame her for being selective and cautious? Also the next time you meet up for a date don’t be surprised if she shows up with family members or friends, and this will happen until she is very comfortable with you or until you have met her parents.

    You say she comes from a family with money then I can pretty much bet that the above is going to happen, with you having to meet her parents because wealthy Asians in their native country do not let their daughters associate with just anyone and follow traditions and customs in a strict manner. If she’s not from a wealthy family then her attitudes will be a little more liberal when it comes to dating but still on some level follow traditions. So just be patient and keep developing your game with other ladies so you won’t get overinvested with her.

    Hope this helps, and good luck!


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