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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Hey there! I'm new on the forums. And this thread is basically the very reason why I was compelled to look for PUA stuff.

    Truth is, I have never been much of a player. I have always been struggling with my self-esteem. Being quite short (5'5") plays a big role in that. But I know that it doesn't really mean anything in the "grand scheme of things". So I'm working on that.

    In any case, lately, I have been friendzoned by a woman I really like. We have really good chemistry, and always have a good time together. But I messed up big time by acting way too emotional with her (and she's a NJR, so that was completely bad of me). But that's low self-esteem for you. =(

    In any case, I've been wondering how to get out from the zone, and since I'm bound to meet her no matter what (younger sis's best friend and soon to become godmother of her child...), I figured I'd try everything I can.

    I'll do my best to put what you said into work (Kino and dis). But if anyone have some more advice I should try, feel free to tell me!

    Also, the community here is really nice. Lots of really great advices for noobs such as myself. =)

    Keep up the good work. And hopefully, I'll get to contribute soon!

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    at some point in our lives we've all been there, it sucks just being her friend while she go's out and sleeps around with a dozen other guys, but what can you do?

    i'll tell you what you can do, you can give her a taste of her own medicine, keep her in your friendzone while you go out and sleep with a bunch of other girls.

    then she will be the emotional one who wants you, and all you have to do is play hard to get and remember that you are more important to your own life than any girl you will ever meet. (she's not that important to your life and i'm sure there are far better girls out there anyways)

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Thanks for the reply. =)

    I'm aware and understand that she isn't the only girl out there. I'm not obsessed over her or anything. I just think it's a shame that nothing has come out of what we had so far.

    We're not talking right now. So I'm taking a step back to watch the situation from a distance... to collect myself. She's a TJR (or a TJI... Not fully sure if she's a realist or idealist. So she's either a seductress or a social butterfly), so there's no point in chasing her.

    I'm letting this one slip for now, and am trying to step into the game. As I've said, up to this point, I've never been much of PUA. Things have always "happened naturally", if you wiil.

    There is so much I need to learn.

    I don't want to make the same mistakes I did with this one.

    If she comes back to me, I'll see what I'll do. But for now, there's no point being stubborn.

    Your advice is a sound one. It will allow me to practice the things I learn here, it will boost my self-confidence, and I'll hopefully get better with women and have a good time with them. =)

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Anyway guys i agree with meteora! I got friendzoned by this girl a couple weeks ago did a complete freezout so my good friend heather actually my ex decided she wanted to hangout this week she was a Stripper at the mouses ear and southern x posure so we went shopping and i ran into her so i had preselection in my favor so the other girl texted me and i replied im glad we are buddies... so i put her in my friendzone we'll see how this works!

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    I just wanted to say that I did this and wrote this guide coming from a scarcity paradigm. Reading it now I'm kind of embarrassed...

    The guide will still help newcomers but newcomers should also realize that you don't need to get out of the friend zone and you don't need her validation. Your mind has already placed her at a higher value than your own and that is not how you should allow your brain to think. Doing this reinforces to your mind that it's ok to give girls higher value.

    It's not ok.

    You're probably better than she is, you just have to realize it. That's it, hope my guide helps and hope this helps you realize that the only validation you need is your own.
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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Can you give examples of emotional and logical answers? Sexual qualities are easy to identify but i'm not sure what falls into the other 2 catagories. ty
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    i'll tell you what you can do, you can give her a taste of her own medicine, keep her in your friendzone while you go out and sleep with a bunch of other girls.

    then she will be the emotional one who wants you, and all you have to do is play hard to get and remember that you are more important to your own life than any girl you will ever meet. (she's not that important to your life and i'm sure there are far better girls out there anyways)
    This is really the only advice you need to get out the friendzone.

    PRESELECTION

    I had a couple chicks I was chasing hard a couple months ago ending with LJBF stumble upon me in the student clubs we frequent, watch me make out with chicks, leave with one of them and not give them the time of the day.

    The following days these girls would be blowing up my phone with texts and missed calls.

    Anyways, the friendzone stops to exist once you start having abundance mentality. You know you can go out today, get 3-4 girls' numbers. Go out tonight, get more numbers, dance, make out and possibly f-close a girl. This is your reality right now. The friendzone doesn't even exist for you anymore.

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Woah Kaybee. Some people aren't in the friend zone and just think they are, so grabbing other girls in front of them isn't the best decision imo. I mean, I'm not one to care about other peoples feelings, but it could spark silent jealousy from the girl, making the situation harder to deal with.



    I like to use drama in my game though so I'm gonna do this, but you shouldn't tell the newbs that. Geez.

    Edit: Hard core noobs i mean, not the kind of noob i am. Lmao. I don't think I am anywhere near not being a noob, im just talking about complete noobs... I don't have to justify myself to you!
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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaybee View Post
    This is really the only advice you need to get out the friendzone.

    PRESELECTION

    I had a couple chicks I was chasing hard a couple months ago ending with LJBF stumble upon me in the student clubs we frequent, watch me make out with chicks, leave with one of them and not give them the time of the day.

    The following days these girls would be blowing up my phone with texts and missed calls.

    Anyways, the friendzone stops to exist once you start having abundance mentality. You know you can go out today, get 3-4 girls' numbers. Go out tonight, get more numbers, dance, make out and possibly f-close a girl. This is your reality right now. The friendzone doesn't even exist for you anymore.
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