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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Some good tips, classes resume tommorow so I'll be sure to keep this in mind on getting to know where i stand with some ladies ;D I'll keep you guys posted in the coming weeks

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Quote Originally Posted by Pothos View Post
    Some good tips, classes resume tommorow so I'll be sure to keep this in mind on getting to know where i stand with some ladies ;D I'll keep you guys posted in the coming weeks
    Sweet! Can't wait to hear you took the action man!
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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Ok, so quick recap of what happened this week. I pretty much applied the first rule for the duration, trying to ignore the girls i think I'm in the friend zone with. For some it was relatively easy because I don't have any classes with them. But for others, specifically a girl I've really been eyeing on for a while, has a couple classes with me and she sits close by. I've been trying to focus during class and actually get some work done but she initiates conversations quite often. She's also asked me on one occasion where I've been all week, because we usually chat at lunch but I've been catching up on my schoolwork during that time. I definately take these as ioi's and have tried to initiate some sort of "light" kino (tapping her hand, hi-five, nothing that special) whenever we bump into each other. However, I'm having difficulty on escalating kino in any way. Should I ignore them longer before initiating kino? Also, I've been working on eye contact A LOT during conversations with pretty much everyone, specifically girls of course, and it seems to be working quite a bit, but sometimes when I'm focusing on looking at their eyes, I lose track of what they say. Is this normal? Or am I forcing too much eye contact? I've also completely disconnected from any texting conversations I've had with any girls (my text game is brutal so I think during this "ignore" phase will give me some time to read a bit on it) Anyways, my main concerns are Kino Escalation and if I'm forcing too much eye contact. If you have any additional questions feel free to ask, you guys rock!

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    but sometimes when I'm focusing on looking at their eyes, I lose track of what they say. Is this normal? Or am I forcing too much eye contact?
    it may be "normal" because you're consciously trying to look in their eyes

    just don't use laser eyes on them, look away every once in a while and relax

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    "but sometimes when I'm focusing on looking at their eyes, I lose track of what they say. Is this normal? Or am I forcing too much eye contact?"

    ^yeah what he said, but... look away often. i read that we tend to not stare at people for 3 seconds or more unless we either want to kill or make love to them. So either look away often (try not to get tunnel visioned from nervousness) or you could also just relax and be interested in what a person is saying and your pupils will dilate, making it much easier to take in all of her body language and what not.
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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    I am going to try this out on a few girls tomorrow at school...

    Just to reiterate the categories when asking a girl to describe her self to you. You're specifically asking for her to give you 3 responses or qualities correct? Now I saw the break down of emo and logical above as far as a response, but could I get a better description for each of the categories....

    Emotional

    Logical

    Sexual

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Yes 3 qualities.

    Emo: caring, loving, kind, loyal, etc.
    Logic: smart, intelligent, etc.
    Sexual: pretty, nice boobs, cute, dat ass, etc.

    These are all responses I've gotten.
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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Awesome, just clarifying before I go try this. Will report back with findings.

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    I've hung out with this HB9 a couple times she just got out of an engagement so last week we hung out she wore heels fishnets and a blues skirt up to her butt it kills me got her back to the house and she sat on my lap her LMR kicked in she made the excuse that she felt bad about her break up! Anyway so i remained unaffected the whole week and i decided to text her a brainworm to set up my cat theory i said "hey potty mouth ru ready for a good weekend" she replied Yess so now that I've shown her some attention right before the weekend i know she'll want to hangout now I'm going to back off and let her come into me! I've seperated myself from all the other barrage of bore that has been needy texting her and let her decide that she wants to see me!

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    Default Re: How to: Friend-Zone

    Ok reporting back from the field... I did this on three girls, one of which I recently had a sexual relationship with but ended approximately 2 weeks ago.

    She gave me 2 emotional, 1 logic response (smart, up for anything, patient). I then described what the results meant and she said she would never tell anyone a sexual response (she is on prozac and bulimia). So interpreting her results was weird.

    I did this on another friend of mine who I asked to describe herself to her current boyfriend and she did the same, also saying that she wouldn't say anything sexual based.

    So as far as this test goes I am a little unsure exactly how well this indicates attraction. I would say it's more important to focus on how she is describing it when she looks at you but overall still not sure on how this works.

    Anyone else trying this out post back with results?


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