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Thread: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

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    Default Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Hey guys,

    This whole PUA is all bullsh1t, no one ever wants to go sarging just waste my time with messages and I live in boston which isnt some middle of nowhere and its one of the largest metropolitan area so its supposed to be denseley populated..

    Its like all americans treat me with disdain bcos Im not some blonde hair blue eyed complexion promoted by the media, and my parents come from east europe.

    All coworkers aare female hate me I tried being friendly and make convos but they just ignore me and just go to lunch together and talk about their boyfriends.

    Its like every HB out there already has boyfriend wtf how did that even happen I cant even get a girlfriend and I have goood looks, workout, low body fat and I have a degree so Im not some ignorant trash with tattoos and piercings.

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Breathe my friend. I know this is not easy. But trust me when I say this is NOT americans. Lots of american girls WANT relationships. They want them bad.

    I think the issue is your congruency. You'll never get a girlfriend with an attitude like that. If you're not truly interested in who she is and what she likes and her hobbies etc, then how can you expect her to care about you? How can you expect her to want to form a relationship with someone she can't connect with? You see what I'm getting at?

    My advice is to keep going out and meeting quality women. Find the places that have them. Meetup groups, lounges and day game is a good start. Hope that helps brother. Good luck and feel better.

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Wtf how am I supposed to like stupid crap like go outdoors and camping all u do is just go live inside a tent like a stupid gypsy??

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Well there's your problem right there. You're not being open minded. Those kinds of guys don't get too far with pickup. Sorry man. Good luck with everything.

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Stich u keep posting new threads saying the SAME thing and getting the SAME advice... STOP feeling sorry for yourself. U can not change overnight. It takes time.

    Seriously man calm down or u might get banned

    And personally, i think a foreign accent and background is a plus.
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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Sitch,

    Change, or leave.

    The supid bitches keep saying we didnt click or some stupid crap like that.

    Nice, so she's a stupid b*tch just because she doesn't like you.

    I dont watch stupid american crap shows about honey boo boo for imbeciles, and I dont care what her hobbies are like some stupid kayaking or w/e Im willing to adapt as long as shes doable.

    So you're willing to change who you are just to get some p*ssy. Good, because that's a character trait that women really like. Keep up the good work.

    I wasted so muuch time on flakes on pof Im sick and tired of go to that website.

    Then visit the f*cking grocery store.

    This whole PUA is all bullsh1t

    An especially awesome thing to say on a PUA website.

    Its like all americans treat me with disdain bcos Im not some blonde hair blue eyed complexion promoted by the media, and my parents come from east europe.

    What does this have to do with America? I mean yeah, a lot of us are assholes, but assholes are a worldwide plague, not just American.

    All coworkers aare female hate me

    I'd hate you too! Sweet baby Jesus, if I had to listen to you in person for more than five minutes I'd probably end up punching you. Nobody cares about your problems! Suck it up and quit being a little b*tch.

    I have goood looks, workout, low body fat and I have a degree so Im not some ignorant trash with tattoos and piercings.

    I'm going to disregard the fact that you completely offended guys like Tyrone and The RB to say this: Women don't care. That's what pickup is based on. Fat and ugly guys get girls just like the attractive and skinny ones. Ever seen a picture of David X?

    Your attitude is f*cked up. That's why you're not getting any girls. If you got right with your headspace I'm sure you could pick up a minimum of three girls a week, no joke.
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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    So do you just write all of your posts when you're really angry, or is this your personality? I'm not asking to be a smart @$$, I'm asking because if you have an angry energy it will repel women.


    I'm gonna give you the same advice I gave my buddy who is like 168cm tall, has a strong Chinese accent, doesn't know or watch American tv shows; and uses PUA to get a different girl every few weeks.


    The lesson from him: just because you aren't blonde haired, are foreign, don't know the "pop culture" means nothing to whether or not you can pick up.


    Quote Originally Posted by TheSitch View Post
    Wtf how am I supposed to like stupid crap like go outdoors and camping all u do is just go live inside a tent like a stupid gypsy??

    Uhh ^ gypsies aren't really a thing here fyi. If you want to scorn camping then the term would be "hippies."


    Quote Originally Posted by TheSitch View Post
    Hey guys,


    So for the life of me I cant understand doesn any guy in america ever get a girlfriend??? I already went to more than 10 dates on all failed, the supid bitches keep saying we didnt click or some stupid crap like that.


    Well there's attitude problem number 1: you think that HER actions are going to determine whether or not you are a successful PUA. You're blaming your target for not clicking, but PUA is about knowing how to MAKE IT click with a target.


    How the hell are we supposed to click, I dont watch stupid american crap shows about honey boo boo for imbeciles,


    No, most Americans don't watch honey boo boo because there aren't enough cheeseburger commercials for us - we only eat cheeseburgers, infact I'm eating one now. If she just keeps talking about some show or movie you don't know then be dominant (with a smile) and change the subject to something you do know. It's like you're holding a map upside down and blaming the road for you getting lost.


    and I dont care what her hobbies are like some stupid kayaking or w/e Im willing to adapt as long as shes doable.


    Attitude problem #2: you don't really care about her interests, you just want to get laid - women will notice that, and you won't get laid.


    I wasted so muuch time on flakes on pof Im sick and tired of go to that website.


    See Cody's reply ^


    This whole PUA is all bullsh1t,


    Alright, that's one possibile explanation. I'd submit the counter-point that if you used PUA correctly then you would be successful with women. PUA isn't about getting laid, it's about connecting with people in a way that facilitates getting laid. You've made it clear (to us and probably also to your dates) that you have no interest in connecting with people but you only want to get laid. THAT'S the problem that you're facing.


    no one ever wants to go sarging just waste my time with messages and I live in boston which isnt some middle of nowhere and its one of the largest metropolitan area so its supposed to be denseley populated..


    Well it sounds again like you're blaming your troubles on other people. Seriously I've met like four or five other PUA's in my area on this site, we have never sarged together yet and all of us are still making progress because we understand that IT'S ABOUT DEVELOPING YOURSELF INTO A DESIRABLE MAN - NOT JUST GETTING LAID.


    Its like all americans treat me with disdain bcos Im not some blonde hair blue eyed complexion promoted by the media, and my parents come from east europe.


    Media? - Whose media? American media? - how long have you been here? I'm trying to think of a blonde haired blue eyed character from a tv show and I'm drawing a blank... there's red hair... a black guy... another black guy... black hair... fat with brown hair... a spanish chick... Oh! Dr. Ried from Scrubs - there we go, blonde, blue eyes.


    All coworkers aare female hate me I tried being friendly and make convos but they just ignore me and just go to lunch together and talk about their boyfriends.


    Seriously here's what I suggest, make a post on this forum where you give us an example of a conversation going wrong in the way it usually does. That way we'll be able to critique what you're doing, rather than just replying to your rant.


    Its like every HB out there already has boyfriend wtf how did that even happen I cant even get a girlfriend and I have goood looks, workout, low body fat and I have a degree so Im not some ignorant trash with tattoos and piercings.

    Aaaaaaaaand there's ^ where you lost me. See the thing about being ignorant trash is that it really doesn't matter what you wear or choose to look like, it's how you present YOUrself to others... and I'll leave it at that to keep things civil.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Yea this is funny and sad at the same time... Seems like you whine about everything and it's everybody else fault...

    Hold yourself accountable

    Learn to fake it until you make it! Are you that lame? There is No way you are a good looking European Guy and cant get girls to like you in Boston and POF... It's your fault, you are probably ok until you open your mouth so try listening and nodding in agreement then ask if she like some of the things you like...I just think your whole outlook is wrong...Continue to work everyone had to...

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    Default Re: Can't get a girlfriend .. American HBs too picky

    Maybe since they watch honey boo boo they also watch that American Gypsies show and make fun of you saying you are like them or something?

    If that's the case, they are jerks... BUT more likely they are testing you or simply playing with you. Some foreigners do not understand or have difficulty registering sarcasm I read once.

    Maybe you have like no sense of humor? I dunno... I posted to your other threads but we can't all keep giving you help or pity. I feel really bad for you man... I really do. You seems like your in a bad place in your life for you to be acting this way.

    I'm sorry that PUA doesnt work for you. But if you hate it so much, then maybe you should just leave bro. But I cant contribute anything else to your pity party.
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