Okay guys...first post here - long time lurker though.
I have a girl that I've known for a little while now. She and I "talked" a little the beginning of this summer and went out a few times, but turns out she had a guy that she was into at the time that she couldn't get over. So I pretty much cut off all communication with her to freeze her out.
Long story short, they had some legal issues over the summer and now he's not allowed to go near her. So she's basically over him now, but she's putting up a wall now because she doesn't want to be hurt again or taken advantage of...I know this because she told me (we started communicating a little bit again recently via text).
So I'm really wondering how to get around this? I know this is a deep emotional thing and there's no sure-fire way to get around it, but I guess I'm just looking for some good tips on how to make myself standout from other guys to her.
I went to lunch with her today and it was good. We had a nice conversation and I maintained confident, sexual energy with lots of eye-contact and light Kino; however, I can tell there's still a wall that I wish I could just demolish honestly
I really don't wanna be friend-zoned - because its definitely a possibility here since she is guarding her emotions so much currently.
Sorry for the long post...and thanks in advance!