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    Default When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    I am looking for an artistic, intellectual, spiritual type of girl. I have played the field and been with some women but I just feel like I am at the poitn where I need to be trying to find a woman who is right for me on higher levels than just the physical. I have tried online dating but find it to be a serious social transgression and the women on there are generally on ther ebecause they dont have time for men, or have social anxiety, or arent emotionally available, or are just plain crazy, or most often, just plain LAME! haha. It seemed great cause I could search based on criteria but even when I would get women out on dates and have sex with them and maybe even form relationships tehy just wernet quality women. So does anyone out there have like very specific criteria that they look for, in addition to general overall quality, that they have found techniques for honing in on while playing the field? I know that the image you project plays a huge part in this but I would really like to delve into the topic about trying to find women who meet specific specifications (lol).

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    So does anyone out there have like very specific criteria that they look for, in addition to general overall quality, that they have found techniques for honing in on while playing the field?

    Yeah, Man, this is my life.

    1. Don't f*ck girls just because they're hot.

    There are so many reasons. I'm not even going to get into it.

    2. Don't "play the field."

    You won't find them that way. Actually, you won't find them by looking for them. We're all looking for them, but they just happen with time. Of course you can increase your sample group, which will in turn higher your probability, but you're still running statistics and statistics only calculate favor, not hard proof.

    3. Be UNFALTERING in your intent.

    If you want her, you'll get her. Make your intent clear and have it be visible that you don't just f*ck girls because they're hot. Standards are hot. Chicks dig standards.
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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    lol no I definately dont just f*ck chicks because they are hot. Actually I have not been with a lot of 9's and 10's because I just dont find ones that are that valuable. Maybe its just my city. But I have found a lot of these women to be super lame. I need to be able to have a conversation with a girl in order to flirt with her hahaha. and if I am doing all the conversation work its a waste of my time and energy. And for me to have sex with a girl I have to genuinely respect and like her. I have been with women I didnt have a lot in common with and werent girlfriend material to me but I did still genuinely respect them and like them and enjoyed talking to them adn being around them so. But I am at the point where I have been with 23 women now and I just dont want to waste my energy adn time with women who are not high value. I need to be moving up in teh world of women and honing in on my dream girls, you know?

    So if not "playing the field" what do you do? This may be semantics or it may be actual practice I'm not sure. But I definately need you to elaborate on that concept and give me some instruction as to what someone should do instead.

    Also being unfaltering in your intent is a concept that comes from Toltec Shamanism isnt it? I would absolutely love it if you would just say a few little more notes on that as well, not because it isnt self explenatory but because I have read about intent extensively in my spiritual studies and would love to hear about how it can be more practically implamented in interactions and the game.

    Your advice is always extremely appreciated Cody my friend. thank you so much for your reply, and thanks in advance for your response to these questions. I always love getting your imput.

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    lol no I definately dont just f*ck chicks because they are hot.

    Oops. I didn't mean to make it seem like you did, lol :P

    I need to be moving up in teh world of women and honing in on my dream girls, you know?

    I feel ya, Homeboy. I feel ya.

    So if not "playing the field" what do you do? This may be semantics or it may be actual practice I'm not sure.

    Kind of. Try dropping the venues that aren't your specific target rich and instead only hit up the ones that are (pretty basic, I know). All I meant was that finding that girl is hard no matter what you do. You might as well add praying to sweet baby Jesus to your list of tactics.

    Also being unfaltering in your intent is a concept that comes from Toltec Shamanism isnt it?

    Heard about it, don't know what it is. I'll add it to my list of things to learn

    Basically, I don't approach that many women, but when I do I get them. It works because I'm insane with my intent. I create the illusion that there are no other options beside thinking I'm an amazing guy. Have you seen the Disney movie, Enchanted? That's how I roll. I'm so over the top that she can hardly take me seriously until I break the 4th wall and come back down to earth. Then she loves it. Direct, but not disrespectful direct. Just insanely intent driven direct. I want you, you want me, we are in love and we can skip all this courting nonsense.

    She accepts your frame no matter what it is, so you might as well make it a f*cking awesome one. Make her think she's in a dream, that way she can respond as if she were in a dream

    Your advice is always extremely appreciated Cody my friend. thank you so much for your reply, and thanks in advance for your response to these questions. I always love getting your imput.

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    OK so I had written a long reply but my comp did an automatic shutdown to install something, so I'll write it again, but a bit shorter this time.

    It comes down to deductive logic. You want a girl who is artistic, intellectual, spiritual. So you should be that as well. Opposites do attract yes, but for a certain amount. Let those things that are opposites not be the things that are important to you. You should have the same important things that you would like a girl to have. If you care so much about the artistic, intellectual, spiritual type, but you are not, stop.

    Go where artistic, intellectual, spiritual type of people hang out, i.e.; art museums, lectures, churches. And don't go there with the specific intent of "finding the dream girl." Don't just go to where women go, like a 90% women-participants spiritual yoga class, otherwise you will be seen as having a lot of intent to get a girl. As you know, girls don't like a guy who looks like he's trying too hard. Also, put on facebook (since it's so prevalent and intrusive) things that show that side of you with pictures as well as information written about artistic, intellectual, spiritual things.

    It is kind of paradoxical - be unfaltering (like Cody said) by pushing yourself to be out at places where you should be to get that type of girl, and know that it will happen when it happens. Intend that it will happen, and things happen to make it so. Remember to not let it look like you're trying too hard.

    As a PUA you already have made things happen. You have the experience now so things should be able to smoothly just happen thanks in large part to your skills.
    Hope this helps!

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    Ok. Thank you both. I think I know what I have to do. And yes I am those things. And yes I have seen enchanted, lol great movie. I do need to work on my frame, and my approach as well. I already have the identity I want, and the image I want, now I just need to work on the way I function in putting these things out there, and being able to close.

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    I dont force progress....half the time I cant even stand to talk to some girl or conversations dry up because theres nothing going on "between" us in that manner.

    However I can find myself talking to a girl I vibe for longer than it really seems if we share similar beliefs or even more so on a basic level "common sense".

    I like to ask leading questions, almost like a stealth interview, but not going down a check list of things to talk about. I often ask about current events or something that is involving everyday life and see how they respond. This is where it gets down to checking out what you want...sometimes theyll be honest and tell the truth or theyll try to feel you out and see what your stance is then falsely pretend that they have the same belief cause in fact they dont know how to express their own identity and sense of perception.

    You do the above right and find some female who expresses herself similar to what your outlook is and you should have some type of attraction at hand once you both realize this* and from asking some simple questions you might have found you both have similar interests and are compatible in more ways then you thought

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    Default Re: When your looking for a very specific type of girl

    I normally go for whatever I'm feeling, but to find the types of girls that you're looking for you might try find them in at protests, yoga/mediation sessions, and volunteering. These places always seem to have what you're looking for.
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