I am looking for an artistic, intellectual, spiritual type of girl. I have played the field and been with some women but I just feel like I am at the poitn where I need to be trying to find a woman who is right for me on higher levels than just the physical. I have tried online dating but find it to be a serious social transgression and the women on there are generally on ther ebecause they dont have time for men, or have social anxiety, or arent emotionally available, or are just plain crazy, or most often, just plain LAME! haha. It seemed great cause I could search based on criteria but even when I would get women out on dates and have sex with them and maybe even form relationships tehy just wernet quality women. So does anyone out there have like very specific criteria that they look for, in addition to general overall quality, that they have found techniques for honing in on while playing the field? I know that the image you project plays a huge part in this but I would really like to delve into the topic about trying to find women who meet specific specifications (lol).