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Thread: Showing LOVE/EMOTION...without being AFC.

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    Default Showing LOVE/EMOTION...without being AFC.

    If you guys want back story on this, refer to my previous posting: (It's not vital)

    First of all I'd like to thank everyone in that post for clearing many things up for me.

    I've made my decision, and I want to do everything in my power to make this girl mine, officially.

    Essentially I'm at a stage where my relationship with this particular girl can go one of two ways. I end up her boyfriend. Or I don't.

    I'm to see her on Friday, we're to talk about how we feel...(I haven't seen her in 10 weeks).

    The issue I now face is playing my emotion down in front of her, I mean I love this girl...but I can't let her know that just yet. The timing isn't right.

    And if I see her on Friday, and blurt that's so farking AFC it hurts.

    I need her to see what she's been missing out on, and why she should take the decision to be with me over a long distance.

    Saturday I'm her date to her Mom's retirement party too, so I'm hoping if I can get along with her family I'll boost up my value considerably.

    But I just need some tips and advice for that reunion.

    I guess the question I'm really trying to ask is this:


    The very thought of it STINKS of AFC to me, and is no doubt a huge sticking point with many a guy.

    All the people on here have been so generous with their advice, and I can't thank you all enough. You guys taking the time to help is really helping to keep me calm and level headed.

    Thank you

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    Default Re: Showing LOVE/EMOTION...without being AFC.

    I think us pickup artists need to understand about expressing emotions the right way and not just shy away from it. Such as understanding the difference between showing anger and reacting to her. They are not the same thing. An angry man who has a stern voice and looks you right in the eye without raising his voice is a very powerful figure. Not beta at all. They actually done studies that found that people were more obedient and respectful towards angry people than happy people. Again, that doesn't mean people who explode and yell getting all emotional. Just people who are not afraid to show their anger.

    I usually have a few things in mind when I tell my gf I love her or any other sweet thing. Am I coming from a place of power or not? Am I saying it for her approval, or because she did/said something for/to me that makes me want to let her know. I usually avoid it during any arguments we might have. I don't want her thinking that she has to "misbehave" for me to tell her I love her. Whatever you put your attention on, you give it power. Thanks for starting this thread. Think it's about time this is discussed.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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