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    Default She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    Here's a story...

    We met 20 years ago in HS. We were never anuthing more than aquantences. I only spent a year at her school.

    A few months ago (just before my divorce was finalized) she finds me on a social network. We texted a bit found out we're both single and only live a few miles from each other.

    We've been out nearly 15 times in six months and we always have a great time together. She is very pretty, a great mom, has a successful career, and is all around just a geat human being.

    She admitted to me the crush she once had on me, and is always complimenting me. She is amazingly independant and comfortable in her own skin. I'm always her first she asks to accompany her to a social funtion, and I always attend.

    I stopped by to visit Thanksgiving night and when she heard I didn't get any leftovers from my sister; she made me a banquet sized tray of food. (She's a damned good cook btw)

    So, the question is, why can't I bring myself to kiss her?

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    never heard of a crush lasting 20 years. I recommend following ross jeffreys method. Make questions like "remember when we had that great time...?" make her feel like she is in the past and then kiss her

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    Not so sure I'm following you.

    Everything she does suggests she still has a crush on me. At least I think she does.
    Obviously I'm crushing on her.

    I don't think I was anticipating meeting such a great girl so soon after the divorce. Idealy she is a perfect partner. I know if I don't do something some other guy is gonna snatch her up.

    As much as I DON'T want that to happen, I'm also afraid of getting into a relationship so soon.

    Ugh... what to do!?

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    You should start by holding hands. Hugging escalate to the kiss. Look her deep in her eyes while doing it then slowly go for the kiss. Of course after she's gotten used to your touch. ;p good luck playboy

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    once again Gmin is on the money haha but seriously heres a story...

    it's because you're a p*ssy and like to hide in a secure shell and not push out of your shell, the sooner you do this and stop idolising this chick the quicker and better things will work in your favour, she made you a banquet on thanks giving, that's a huge ioi because she cares for you

    here's another story, most of us have gone through dreadful experiences that we probably laugh on now ( atleast i do, cause i know better ) ---> and we've pushed on

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    Yeah lol she's basically throwing herself at you. Use Kino and escalate before she loses interest homie. ;p

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    Ha! She does the Kino thing.

    If she is interested, why hasn't she gone for the kill?

    You're all right though, I need to man up. I tried once, but psyched myself out. Like some twitty little teenager.

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    You're all right though, I need to man up. I tried once, but psyched myself out. Like some twitty little teenager.
    most people ranging from anywhere between 15 and 55 still get aa on their first approach, and still get it even after they've done there 50th approach - doesn't matter how old you are, it matters what you do to cope

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    when i have aa i usually beat it with music. I listen to electro house in one ear and the other i use to listen to the conversation

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    Default Re: She's still crushing on me after 20 years

    you actually have music going while you game? :P that's neat haha


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