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    Default HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    Hey, I am looking for suggestions on what to do. I met this girl on a dating site and we really hit it off, everything was great. I used an opener that I tweaked to go with her profile that I learned from here (thanks for that ) With in 15 min I had her number and we were texting the whole weekend, she was even sending me "nice" pictures. She has a son and her last bf didn't like kids and that's why they broke up.

    Here is where it goes down, I sent her a text yesterday asking her how her day was going. She replied telling me it was going good followed with,

    "I'm getting back together with my ex I think, I'm pretty sure"

    I don't know for sure if they got back together or not, her profile still says single and she has been on a few times since we last talked. I know I should just be like "okay, whatever, her loss " and move on, but something about this girl is making me not want to give up.

    I don't know what to say to her that will make her think of me more than him, or to find out if they truly are getting back together 100 % I don't want to seem like a desperate guy.

    Anyone have any wisdom or guidance for a fellow member?

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    From my experience with regards to relationships, getting back with an ex is a recipe for disaster. She mentioned that he didn't like kids and the fact of the matter is no one just changes all of a sudden. I'm willing to go on a limb here and say her realized he farked up and convinced her that he had changed. He can only put this front on for so long so it will more then likely backfire on his a$$.

    Her message say "I Think, I'm pretty sure" Doesnt sound too convincing to me. Maybe you could use a BF destroyer somehow. Read this post:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    You didnt even date her yet... so why are u worried? There is no investment here. Keep trying to see her. Do alpha atuff during the date. You can still start something... just dont get into her too much.

    And u can always use a BF Destroyer lol
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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    Thanks guy's i'll read up on the bf destroyer lol catchy name.

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    Hey, so here is an update. She told me that the guy said he was going to "try and like kids, he says everytime he's around him (the kid) he likes him more."

    She also told me that if it doesn't work out that she would let me know. I asked if we could be friends to get to know each other. She said "I dont think my bf will like that."

    Now i am thinking how can i convince her to be friends and talk, and meet up to hang out so she can see how i am in real life and how i do like kids unlike her bf? I have been using some items i learnt from the bf destroyer and hope to continue to use them.

    Any more advice would be great.

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    I would keep it up with the BF destroyer and also show her that her decision hasn't affected me at all. If she sees that your not bothered by it then it shows you have other things going on in your life. Freeze her out for a few days then start a new conversation. Keep doing it sporadically so she never knows whens she is gonna hear from you again

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    Thanks, I will give that a shot. she also randomly asked me last night over text if I was a virgin, haha..I told her I wasn't and I asked her why she asked and her exact words were "just wondering" and then I went on to asking her how she was feeling (because shes sick) and if her bf brought her soup and she said "no lol"

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    Quote Originally Posted by Avenger08 View Post
    Thanks, I will give that a shot. she also randomly asked me last night over text if I was a virgin, haha..I told her I wasn't and I asked her why she asked and her exact words were "just wondering" and then I went on to asking her how she was feeling (because shes sick) and if her bf brought her soup and she said "no lol"
    This should definitely answer your question of HOW she sees you. The face she would ask you that is probably a huge IOD. "Just wondering"....fuck her.

    Why would you ask her if you could be friends?

    My advice is learn from the mistake and move on. As it was mentioned above you haven't invested anything in her. Go pick up more girls, you will do better next time.

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    Default Re: HB9 wants to get back with her ex!

    I disagree... asking if u are a virgin is a test i think. She is trying to throw u off. Your mistake was answering her quickly. Never answer a girls question without making her work for the info (especially something so personal). If u just straight up answered her question, you easily gave up your power to her.

    Number 2, when u did answer, you should have given a cocky answer..."oh im totally a virgin... i was born in Virginia (or the Virgin Islands if your not american)." If she didnt like the joke, tell her that knowing whether u are or not is personal. She should tell u something first before u tell her (u can even make it sexual).

    But please DO NOT talk about her boyfriend too much. The key is to build feelings about u and her... if u keep trying to talk about the boyfriend, it may turn into her therapy session. If she tells u about her man troubles, it means you are friendzoned.

    And again, SEE HER IN PERSON. A bf destroyer works best in person. Go on a coffee date or something but see her. Do not treat it like a date (just two friends getting together).
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