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    sagax07 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I continue perusing?

    Hey, I'm new here. My friend recommended me to this site. I've been texting this girl for about 6 months now and she was dating one of my old best friends. Basically, i texted her non stop all the time. During these 6 months, I found out she was having trouble with her boyfriend. I encouraged her to break it off at the time, but she was hesitant. We never really hung out except once or twice, however, we did text all the time. Fast forward to now, and she had recently broke it off with her boyfriend a week ago. She was incredibly upset and i was her shoulder to cry on those two days. She talked to me quite a bit and even initiated flirting quite a few times(i used to be the only one to do that), however, Wednesday, she started talking to her BF again.We were going to hang out this Friday and she declined saying she "didn't feel like it", and just yesterday, we were in conversation and she just came back and I said "Hey beautiful,whats up?". More jokingly then anything else. She asked if i could stop calling her beautiful because her ex preferred if i didn't.At this point, i was a bit shocked and a little ticked off seeing as how i was trying to make her happy and always made sure she was okay for these past few months. I told her that it would be best if we stopped talking and didn't bother to talk to her after that. I was a bit bothered by it today, and her ex and her and most likely going to get back together. I was wondering if i should keep pursuing her, or if i should just drop it?

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    first - decide what u want from her.

    u don't need to stop persueing her, but she should be regarded as an option.

    to just F:
    then look up "BF destroyer"
    learn more abt PUA techniques
    keep things polite and fun - even if u decide to freeze

    for GF:
    avoid her as GF material until she's off her BF completely for 3.mths
    then start ur game again.

    these sound like simple answers, but learning this stuff takes a willingness to read and search.

    just start today - read around..... get a general idea
    pickup "the game", by Neil Strauss to get ur feet wet with this world - and an idea of what school u like to learn from.
    and don't be lazy... u will only get what u put in.

    GL - ask questions.!

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    Your her friend... simple as that. I would look elsewhere and stop focusing on this girl.

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    dude,

    read these forums a lot. thats my advice to you.

    also, forget about this one.

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    When a woman openly discusses her man problems with you, u are friendzoned.

    Move on... learn to be alpha. Get other womens numbers go out with them.

    Slight chance after u do this for 4 months or so u may have a chance again... MAY HAVE A CHANCE. As long as u dont contact her at all. But unless u work on yourself first, even that small chance may disappear.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    Ps . Guy,

    Ur kinda a dick! ... You don't cruise your best friends' exes!
    Also,, your so friendzoned it's. it even funny!
    I mean you told her to dump him and talked bad about the guy?
    Haha... Keep reading these forums bro. And respect seduction.

    Personally I'd never give you advice on how to proceed on this one
    Cause you come off as a douche, trying to bang your friends ex. You
    Even come off as a douche to her . So I wouldn't give you advice but you
    Already screwed this up to a point of no return.

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    So I wouldn't give you advice but you
    Already screwed this up to a point of no return.
    I'm chiming in because I don't believe it's screwed up to a point of no return. I agree, though, that this is the worst case of friendzoning I've ever read

    All the advice given on this thread are good because even though they might sound aggressive, they're intended to make you realize right now that you've been on the wrong path all along.

    If you really want the girl, you'll have to think long-term. It might take years for you to come back to her as a potential boyfriend. Like everyone else on this thread I suggest you quit being her friend right now and ignore her for the next year at the least. Read the forum and books to learn about seduction and how your story managed to become the worst example of friendzone in recent history

    Finally, practice your skills on other girls and only try your luck again with the main girl after you feel confident that you've changed completely your approach with girls. The sooner you start the learning process, the faster you'll get your chance.

    The reason why I believe it's not screwed forever is that you've at least managed to create a connection between you two. In a few years from now, if you still bother about her, it might play on your side as long as you present yourself as a sexual man - and not as a friend anymore.

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    Default Re: Should I continue perusing?

    Stop talking to her for few good months, in the meantime learn seduction and then start all over again! u made a big mistake by telling her that she should break up with her bf, because of that their relationship grew stronger!


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