Back in high school i met this 10, perfect in every way - a bit shy and airheaded but that was fine with me. I ended up getting lvl 10,000 friend zoned and we became best friends. We ended up having an odd relationship. We cuddled often, we made out occasionally but we weren't a couple. She teased me all the time and it drove me crazy. I fell in love with her and essentially ruined everything. In hindsight i believe she loved me too, i just didn't have enough confidence in myself to get her. The last day we hung out i believe i ended things with a "fark you" and she cried.
This was 3 years ago... Since then i've gotten laid by many times(once with her best friend), dated around, found a gf, started my life. Over the years i'd seen her maybe once or twice, i've apologized for falling in love with her(hoping to guilt trip her) and she simply said that i didn't have to be sorry.
I saw on facebook a couple of weeks ago that her 2 year long relationship just ended. I contacted her on new years saying i missed the old days and i wanted to hang out... She gave me her number and i've been texting her. I think i'm ready to hook this one, even if i have to break up with my gf to do so. I have alot going for me these days and i know that im a catch.
Do you guys have any tips on getting her? Take it slow? Take it fast? Should i be flirty? Distant? What approach should i take??? I wanna show her that i'm a new man now and at the same time i want to renew our old love and get that spark back. I would love to have a relationship with her and i also wouldn't mind finally farking her, do i need to decide what i want with her yet?