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    lookout is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how do I know what I want, am I just being AFC?

    I just got finished on a date with a 7.5, lovely girl intelligent, educated, funny, good personality ect. But encountered a problem that would be for most a perfect scenario. When push pulling i was going from funny to serious to funny, and quizzed her during a low energy part of the date about what she wants, she says "ive just got out of a v. Long relationship, im not looking to get into anything serious". Why then is she on a date with me? To interview me as a sexual partner. The thing is that after this happened my attraction to her dropped massively, we still were having fun and joking but we both knew it had gone somewhat sour. As we were leaving each other we had a good long passionate kiss and when she said she will see me around, I replied "will I", as in "no you fucking wont". Am i being a phaggot here? Am i taking the wrong viewpoint on this, or should I go with my gut feeling.

    I want a girl that will fukc me and nobody else, call that what you will. Is this unfair of me given that im planning on leaving the country in the next 2/3 months??
    Help me out people in smarting here x

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    lookout is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: how do I know what I want, am I just being AFC?

    Maybe this was just too obvious to warrant a response, or it was prased wrongly.i was quite tore up when i wrote this so it doesnt make much sense looking at it now. Wanting a girlfriend isnt AFC! Writing posts without proof reading is super beta though.

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    Kaybee is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: how do I know what I want, am I just being AFC?

    Lots of girls say stuff like that. Their tone soon changes once you've screwed them and they try to be the ones tying you down in a relationship.

    Honestly, I wouldn't put too much faith in the spoken word of anyone(women especially), considering most people don't really know what they want. Watch their body language, tone and expressions to determine whether they truly mean what they are saying.

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    Shortman is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: how do I know what I want, am I just being AFC?

    ^^ That, women say one thing, do another. Pay attention to her actions, not her words

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    Default Re: how do I know what I want, am I just being AFC?

    Sneaky! It makes complete sense though. Im not really in the headspace where i want to go around doing that BUT it is true that after you have sex with a girl that is the "tables turn" moment where she is the one chasing you, this has happened to me a good few times- unfortunately i almost always lose interest in the girl after i sleep with her.

    Does anyone know some subtle sh1t tests i can give girls to see how i can find one that will truly be loyal? They are rare but girls do exist that will attach to only one guy even when tempted


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