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    bljohnson11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default desperately need help getting first girlfriend

    Ok I'm 23 I'm a senior in college and I've never had a real girlfriend I was an antisocial nerd in high school and when I started college I was really wierd at first but ended up having a pretty cool social group and I've gotten laid a couple of times but everyone that knows me can't even imagine me with a girlfriend. I transferred schools a year ago and I have an akward demeanor but I look good and I've been working out recently and I think that's helping out a lot with my akward demeanor. I have a facebook with pictures of me having fun with hot girls and but when my new roommates saw it after knowing me for a couple months they were really surprised and one of them accused me of photoshopping or something. I recenlty read Tao Of Badass or whatever and it was the first pua book I've read that I thought could really help me. Especially the part about being the male gender role to attract women because I think the reason people can't imagine me with a girl is because I act goofy and wierd a lot to make people laugh and like me. Another thing in that book was that you need to touch girls to get them attracted to you and not fall in the friend zone because I've had a friends tell me this and it just made me really mad and I'd say I'm not that kind of guy but like it explains in the book you need to be that kind of guy if you want to improve yourself. Any advice on what to do or material to read would be very much appreciated.

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    Default Re: desperately need help getting first girlfriend

    Jesus lol... first off relax... second, your at the right place. Just search for what questions you have, and remember, your a man, you act first and talk second :P. Go look up Shark's blog "solvemygirlproblems " if you want some awesome pieces of advice on the specifics.

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    Default Re: desperately need help getting first girlfriend

    If you are serious about getting a gf then you have to develop a list of standards. Roughly around 5 specific traits that you feel are really important. Not only will it increase your chances, but women that are attracted to you will try to live up to those standards.

    My recommendation is to read The Attraction Code by Vin Di Carlo.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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