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    Question Should I ask her to be my girlfriend?

    I know this girl from an year now and i am definitely not in friend zone. Dated her a lot but never asked to be my girlfriend. I kinoed i flirted i touched her a lot but never pushed her towards more because she is a virgin and i want to take things slow.

    She also is cute and always say cant live without me and all other stuffs girls says to their lovers. calls every time she wants to hangout or even without any reason, always try to touch me( gives a lot of ioi's).

    the only thing stopping me is that she had a boyfriend in past who left her (1 year ago) because she cheated on him and than felt guilty for her mistake. she is a bit more obsessed on him, more than she is obsessed with me (he dont even talk to her and she is not happy) i was thinking of asking her to be my girlfriend because it is clear that we both cant live without each other and she is not happy (dont laugh i know a lot of girls but she is the only one i care for).

    i just wanted to ask you guys for some pro advices

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Should I ask her to be my girlfriend?

    I know you may not want to hear (read) this. But I don't think it wise to pursue a relationship. At least not right now.

    You have to take the lead. Not sure why you are taking things slow. It's true when they say nice guys finish last. (Although the phrase is a bit vague) If you are taking things slow because you want to make sure she is comfortable then that is the wrong route to take. Women respond more to a man who takes the lead while making her feel comfortable rather than waiting around for her to decide when she's ready. A year is plenty of time to feel comfortable enough to sleep together. But it doesn't even seem like you even kissed her. Correct me if I'm wrong.

    If she is more obsessed about her ex then getting into a relationship with you will likely not change that. Especially since she cheated on him. She feels guilty so that will increase the chances that she will want to correct that image she placed in his head, of her being a cheater, if he gives her another chance. Focus on developing attraction first so her focus is on you before you think about pursuing a relationship.

    Also if you are not from the U.S. then obviously there will be cultural differences.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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