Well hello there and thanks in advance for your advice
beware! Wall of text ahead.
SO it all starts with this smoking Hot blue-eyed, blonde girl which I've been dating for about 3 months now.
the only thing keeping me from rating her a perfect 10 is because she has minor love handles... she's working on it.
after her break-up with her ex boyfriend (been together 4 years of which he cheated on her for the last whole year) she has been reluctant and/or unable to trust other men. After this failure she only had 3 other guys which never got more than "friend with benefits"-status for about 3 months.
Last Sunday I had her over to watch a movie which neither of us did get even 20% of. It was awesome as hell and we cuddled and talked for about two hours after (where she told me about her "friends"). She then told me that her feelings for me were not of a "friend"-ly nature but that she was not up for the commitment of a relationship.
there's two questions here:
I am not quite sure if she is a Denier or Justifier. Considering her few sexual partners and her overall concern for her Health and beauty (daily beauty-masks, no tattoos, piercings, spa's and that stuff) as well as her looking down upon "slutty" girls i would have placed her a Denier. But since there was no LMR whatsoever i can only hope that she was so extremely comfortable and engaged that it would rule out any possibility of J.
Second question would be how to get her to commit herself to a relationship.
Thanks for your help