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    Default need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    Well hello there and thanks in advance for your advice

    beware! Wall of text ahead.

    SO it all starts with this smoking Hot blue-eyed, blonde girl which I've been dating for about 3 months now.

    the only thing keeping me from rating her a perfect 10 is because she has minor love handles... she's working on it.

    after her break-up with her ex boyfriend (been together 4 years of which he cheated on her for the last whole year) she has been reluctant and/or unable to trust other men. After this failure she only had 3 other guys which never got more than "friend with benefits"-status for about 3 months.

    Last Sunday I had her over to watch a movie which neither of us did get even 20% of. It was awesome as hell and we cuddled and talked for about two hours after (where she told me about her "friends"). She then told me that her feelings for me were not of a "friend"-ly nature but that she was not up for the commitment of a relationship.

    there's two questions here:

    I am not quite sure if she is a Denier or Justifier. Considering her few sexual partners and her overall concern for her Health and beauty (daily beauty-masks, no tattoos, piercings, spa's and that stuff) as well as her looking down upon "slutty" girls i would have placed her a Denier. But since there was no LMR whatsoever i can only hope that she was so extremely comfortable and engaged that it would rule out any possibility of J.

    Second question would be how to get her to commit herself to a relationship.

    Thanks for your help
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    you're the guy that posted in the pandora's box cold reads threads aren't u?
    -justifier defenetly, not all justifiers dress slutty the dress classy and sexy
    -be more dominant and show her that u won't hurt her
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    yeah and following your advice i started a new thread :P

    thanks for the tips so far

    So since she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship so far and I am not the kind of guy to chase like an idiot is it advisable to go with other options to hang out with or would this only fall into the category of things which might possibly hurt her when she finds out?

    Or should i just not give a damn and go for my options until she does or doesn't get her s... together?
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    From personal experience I can tell you that sometimes people just want to be single no matter how much they like someone...

    If she's come out of a 4 year long relationship she's bound to want to play the field a bit... hence the f-buddies.

    There are a few ways to push past this and you sound as if you're close. You've already pushed past just being another F-buddy and now you need to show you are reliable and be reassuring.

    My approach would be cards on the table time, The attraction is there from the sound of things, so I'd go with something along the lines of "I like you and ultimately I'd like us to date properly, it can go as fast or as slow as you want too but thats what I want".

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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    Quote Originally Posted by TeeJayRaccoon View Post
    yeah and following your advice i started a new thread :P

    thanks for the tips so far

    So since she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship so far and I am not the kind of guy to chase like an idiot is it advisable to go with other options to hang out with or would this only fall into the category of things which might possibly hurt her when she finds out?

    Or should i just not give a damn and go for my options until she does or doesn't get her s... together?
    If she's ok with an open thing than why wouldn't u be?
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    So first of all sidewinder thanks for your thoughts on this. since the breakup with her ex she had 2 years to play the field but maybe she wants more playtime who knows?

    The "cards on the table" is an excellent idea and maybe I'm gonna try it even if it kinda feels like a sink or swim with a gun to her head =P

    And xavier the open LTR would be the best solution from a impartial point of view. Since i got some girls on the side this would be perfect to continue date-mode.

    BUT we already talked about that kinda thing and she doesn't want me to fool around. what kinda zone is this anyways?

    So either i push through her last barriers

    or

    drop her and continue date-mode
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    So she wants to fool around, not want to be u're girlfriend and not want u to see other people? This is no zone my friend this is an alpha girl making u a pussy the only way to get out of it is be a man and tell her this: "Look i like u and i want u to be my gf if u don't want to be then i'm gonna still fool around with other girls wether u still wanna talk to me or not"
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    sounds like a plan. I will do that next time I see her.

    /thread
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    Default Re: need Help on smokin HOT Blonde 9 NDR (possibly NJR)

    Quote Originally Posted by TeeJayRaccoon View Post
    sounds like a plan. I will do that next time I see her.

    /thread
    Don't forget:
    - if she says no, as soon as she does turn u're back to her and walk away and cut her out of u're life. If when u do she changes her mind tell her no cuz i don't want to be with someone who is not sure she wants to be with me. that will drive her crazy and she'll want you like never ever b4
    - if she says yes kiss her on the forehead and lead her to somewhere u 2 can bone in peace.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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