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    Default Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    I have no social life right now and I'm in college and kind of enjoy not having social life. I used to be part of social circles at last college and it was very stressful and I have pictures of me on my facebook with hot girls and when I meet girls off dating sites that have seen my facebook it seems like they think it's false advertisement. So are can anyone help me?

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    Try online dating like Plenty of Fish, or Ok Cupid. That's how I've gotten laid while having no social life. You'll have to take them in fun dates and put up with tons of flaking to make it work, but it does work.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    What do you mean they think it's false advertistment when they meet you? They don't think you are the same person? I don't get it.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    Girls prefer guys with a social life.

    It would be a challenge to get a good gf while not having a social life.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    Quote Originally Posted by bljohnson11 View Post
    I have no social life right now and I'm in college and kind of enjoy not having social life. I used to be part of social circles at last college and it was very stressful and I have pictures of me on my facebook with hot girls and when I meet girls off dating sites that have seen my facebook it seems like they think it's false advertisement. So are can anyone help me?
    of course u can, that's how i'm seen at uni. Just don't make it seem like u have no social life cuz u don't fit in make it seem like u don't go out cuz u're passed all that and u're the strong silent type.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    I don't think you can have a girlfriend if you're a loner. Girls don't want guys like that!

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    You need to change yourself immediately. Girls like relax guys and you are definitely not. DO NOT GIVE THAM THAT THEY ARE TOO MUCH IMPORTANT. They are not really. You will see that. You need to learn. To read books about that.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    To answer your question, you can but it's not going to be easy. If you are expecting some HB9+ gf who has her choice of quality guys, then even more so. It's an uphill battle. Having look like you got no friends, hence no social life is never a good thing. It's anti-PUA.

    The bottom line is if you got no social life, you need to bring something else to the table to make up for it (and no it's not looks). Are you a talented musician/artist? Are you an athletic jock busy with extra curricular activities? Are you good in the sack to get her sexually addicted to you? Do you guys have compatible interests? You need some sort of social proof to keep them interested and make them stick. The key is if you don't have a social life, you better be looking busy doing something cool and interesting.

    I have a friend who is a award winning makeup artist. He is old like almost 60 and kind of slowed down from his playboy days. Doesn't go out and no longer has a social life. He still gets women, but the fvcker is a machine in the sack without V. His proof of status is all the pictures of him with celebs and his penthouse PB and high fashion magazine portfolios and awards on the walls. His girlfriend was 18 and she stayed with him for four years until one day she packed her bags and left him. Got bored.

    I have another friend who has no social life at all. Just a clique of four friends with doldrum jobs no social lives who gather once a week to play dungeons & dragons. By luck, he did end up getting a girlfriend. But that girl was just like him, except socially worst, she has zero friends, leeches off of him, doesnt go out and stays in his room and plays video games all night. Birds of a feather flock together. And truthfully, although he could do better, that was the best he was going to get given what he could've brought to the table.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    thanks for all the advice I think my real problem is getting nervous when meeting girls I think i have a panic disorder because I'll meet a girl off an online dating website and I'm like a deer in a headlight its the same thing in job interviews it really sucks.

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    Default Re: Possible to get a gf if I'm a loner?

    To overcome a fear of rejection, develop an even stronger fear of regret.


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