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    Spirit Reckoner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I'm interested in a girl with a bf of 3 years

    I'm at a university. I'm 25 and there is a girl I am interested in that is 19. We have class together, I asked her to hang out after 1 week of classes with her and she accepted. We drove around, enjoyed each others company... overall it went very well. She ended up mentioning her boyfriend, then next time I asked her to hang... she did, she got dressed and came to socialize with me at a friends place before classes.

    She's been dating the same guy for 3 years, they are probably both 19 and and I am interested in her. I don't know the guy, and she doesn't have a ring on her finger. I am stuck and in need of some advice before next week.

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    Default Re: I'm interested in a girl with a bf of 3 years

    Guys? Please Help. Advice, go. BUMP!!!

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    Default Re: I'm interested in a girl with a bf of 3 years

    Uggh. I'm never a fan of stepping into LTRs because I don't like it when other guys try to do it to me. But here's my view on the situation.

    She's at least curious about you, if not attracted to you. Apart from hanging out with you, what other IOIs is she showing?

    Have you tried any of the boyfriend destroyer routines? Look into them, they may help.

    Next time you hang out with her--provided she doesn't flake of course--you need to make some sort of move. Because she has a boyfriend, the longer you wait to make a move the more guilty she is going to feel and the worse this will go for you. Try some light Kino with her and see how she reacts. Light nudges in the arm, elbow touches, etc. If she is receptive to light kino you should escalate it.

    She's also likely to give you some resistance because she has a boyfriend. Don't be surprised for it and come ready to respond appropriately. Some other guys in here have way more experience with breaking through the boyfriend barrier and you should see what they say about that.

    Good luck!
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