Re: I'm interested in a girl with a bf of 3 years
Uggh. I'm never a fan of stepping into LTRs because I don't like it when other guys try to do it to me. But here's my view on the situation.
She's at least curious about you, if not attracted to you. Apart from hanging out with you, what other IOIs is she showing?
Have you tried any of the boyfriend destroyer routines? Look into them, they may help.
Next time you hang out with her--provided she doesn't flake of course--you need to make some sort of move. Because she has a boyfriend, the longer you wait to make a move the more guilty she is going to feel and the worse this will go for you. Try some light Kino with her and see how she reacts. Light nudges in the arm, elbow touches, etc. If she is receptive to light kino you should escalate it.
She's also likely to give you some resistance because she has a boyfriend. Don't be surprised for it and come ready to respond appropriately. Some other guys in here have way more experience with breaking through the boyfriend barrier and you should see what they say about that.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."