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Thread: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    I've been thinking for a while about telling her via text something along the lines of "Listen, I think that you think that I like you...Considering that we have only really hung out together one time, I would have to be pretty desperate, or pretty naive to like you more than a friend. Any time I ask you to hang out, it's simply as friends, ya digg..." Something like that...Waddya think?

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    Yeah dont cut her out, cut her off, do it. Do the friends speech and then move on. She might do something you didnt expect.

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    Quote Originally Posted by RussellJ View Post
    Honestly men, I this chick is messed up... I asked her to kick it again this past weekend and she made up some lame excuse and I called her out on it and we pretty much havent spoken since.?
    Dude, you need to stop calling girls out when they cant chill. Its possibly the least attractive thing you can do as a man. That's just not a pick up artist move. Also, what everyone here failed to notice or comment on is the fact that this girl is coming off of a LTR. The last thing a girl in that situation wants to do is jump into something with a guy she doesn't know well. She wasn't trying to LJBF you with the late night text she sent you. She was telling you that she liked being around you and you needed to have patience with her.

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    Quote Originally Posted by KingKino View Post
    Let her go, or even better, give her the "I think we should be friends" speech before she gives it to you. You may be able to use her to get to her hot friends
    Doubt that unless you hit up on a not so close friend of hers that is not within her immediate circle of friends..and even then Id suspect her to sabotage you or def fill that girls ear full of nonsense trying to fubar your chances.

    Unless your on good terms with her and shes too caught up with her EX..then you may have a very good chance to shift your crosshairs.

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Doubt that unless you hit up on a not so close friend of hers that is not within her immediate circle of friends..and even then Id suspect her to sabotage you or def fill that girls ear full of nonsense trying to fubar your chances.
    She'd only sabotage his chances if she likes him, in which case he'd know that she likes him, and can play those cards. Otherwise, if she doesn't like him, she will most likely help him hook up if he shows interest in her friends. Win win.

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    Let me get this straight: It's only your FIRST DATE together and she doesn't allow much interaction between you both, and you decide something's clearly wrong with her (even though she asked to hang out again in the future.) Next you call her out because she can't make your second date, at which point you consider sleeping with her friend to get back at her??

    Chill out and actually think about your actions for a few moments.

    If you're actually looking for a girlfriend, that takes patience — not just for her, but also for you. If you're just looking for a girl to bed, why are you posting in the "How to get a girlfriend" section of the forums?

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    Default Re: First date, friendzone? Taking it slow?

    One approach that might be worth considering is to imply that you have other options available and that spending time with you is valuable. That would give you a good gauge to whether there is a geniune interest or the runaround treatment.


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