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Thread: Being the nice guy did win the girl

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    Default Being the nice guy did win the girl

    I was talking to my married friends a little while ago. I was trying to figure out what works, and his wife told me that the deciding factor for her was when she saw her husband being the nice guy - to all of our other friends. Helping them out, being considerate, doing all kinds of nice guy things for them. My friend and his wife (girlfriend back then) were really good friends, too, but they were definately Kino friends. And my friend did have an outward edge to him. Not necessarily a bad boy, but there was this edge, and most everyone noticed it. And he did steal his wife away from her boyfriend when he was gone from college for a year. Bwahahahaha!
    So, my summary point is: have an edge, be bold, go for it, kino, all the while having an inner nice guy ready to go at the right time. That's what made it happen for my married friends.

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    Default Re: Being the nice guy did win the girl

    You're looking at it the wrong way. You assume because he's nice, he won her. I don't know you , him or her, but I guarantee you, he had enough attraction and comfort with her. She probably told you he was "nice" because that is something she looks for when selecting a mate but was not the deciding factor, guaranteed.

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    Default Re: Being the nice guy did win the girl

    People who say don't be nice don't know what they're talking about. Nobody prefers to be treated like crap (except if they have like mental health problems). You're friend you said was bold and obviously escalated Kino, which means he was confident, straight forward, and sexual.

    That's what girls look for. Yeah they'll rationalize it as "He's good looking" or "He's nice", but in the end, confidence is what matters

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    Default Re: Being the nice guy did win the girl

    yes I agree with with monop and scguitar:

    Badboys possess these skills listed here:

    decisive, confident, charismatic and passionate.

    Nice guys do not.

    A guy who falls inbetween nice guy and badboy and creates a hybrid. That guy wins all the time.

    Now at the end of the day you be yourself. As stated, the whole point of the game is be a better you so you can increase your attraction game.

    So go out there and be a better you. Be a man.
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