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    nighthunter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default getting her for the second time

    Ok, about a month ago I approached a girl at the party.. we talked, danced (I was going Kino on her ass and maybe thats the problem), KC at the end + she gave me her phone.

    I phoned her twice, texted twice even wrote on FB. I know its stupid and beta but.....

    The thing is I will be seeing her tomorrow at another party and I would like to get a second chance talk to her and set up a date.

    Do I have a chance? Any advices?

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    Default Re: getting her for the second time

    Don't worry about trying to "set up a date" right now.
    Just approach & flirt.
    The "date" thing will come on its own if you express a fun, confident, alpha vibe.

    Asking a girl out before you build attraction increases the chance she'll say "no".

    Remember, a girl needs a REASON to want to go out with you... she wants to know she's gonna have fun.


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    Default Re: getting her for the second time

    Ok buddy, I think you killed it by going overboard.

    I would advise against phoning a girl after getting her number... you are much more likely to get a response from a text as it's far less intrusive.

    You've dlv'd yourself too much and you've made yourself look a bit desperate. Your only real shot is to stay distant from her at the party, at least at first. Don't be rude or look like you are deliberately avoiding her and if she engages you then thats great.

    You don't want to go bounding up to her like a lovestruck puppy. Go and flirt with another girl and she'll probably come to you. Then you can re-engage from a slightly better position.

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    Default Re: getting her for the second time

    its pretty beta what you did but u can still recover from it. just dont treat her anything special at the party. when you meet her again just pretend you forgot her or something, and then quickly remember like "ohhhh!!! you, now i remember, your such an ass, i was being friendly on facebook"-- ok maybe thats a little too much, but along the lines of something like that. then just go have fun and treat her like every other girl, go flirt and attract her. maybe start tocreally engage her then just leave without ending the convo, "hold on, be back in a sec". then continue the convo after you see her again. honestly, at a club, its kind of wierd to ask someone on a date, getting a number is easy but because of the atmosphere, you can't really be romantic.

    If i were you, i would create enough attraction to take her out of the building. Go on a walk, and actually have a decent convo. Id ask or tell her to go on a quick walk with me
    Id be more confident if its just me and her, then i can really start to charm her.


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