Hi all... Where to start!!
I have been hanging out and good friends with a chick for 4 years and all that time she has had a boyfriend whom treated her pretty badly,stealing from her and promising to change under the influence of weed and hard core ice type drugs!! his past experience is of having 3 kids by 3 different chicks and now has a kid with this girl! They have broken up for good!! She finally realised what a a fuck witt he really is!!
Of late myself and this girl have been hanging out more and getting up the coast,with her 3 month old baby.. ( i dont fall at her feet or pay for everything or kiss her ass)
She knew previously how i was keen on her about a year ago when she split up with the boyfriend...Other people seeing us hang out together back then could see something there and comented on this but she denied an interest!!
I have learned alot in the past relationships and the forums of ribbing the girls and playing cocky funny with them, which i use on this chick and she laps it up!! Im by no way needy and she seems quite drawn or intrigued of my latest lays and good fortune with a few girls of late...
But im really a kind of guy ultimatly looking for a good solid down to earth girl and long term relationship..
i have had my fair share of palying around and been pretty unlucky to be dating of late selfish Australian chicks(im from England originally) .
Dont get me wrong guys i am by no way needy and putting my eggs in one basket with this girl and happy to walk away if there was by no way an interest recipriated..
About a year ago my thinking was not being the type to take on a ready made family, but at 36 ive changed my attititue and open to dating chicks with kids its pretty relevant that most chicks my age may have kids..
This girl is open to another baby in the future maybe, which i would like one day..
Im basically interested in having a crack at this girl and although im trying not to get too involved with her woes of the past fuck witt and trying to keep her laughing and being cocky funny with her im interested in working on a system to draw out that interest i know she has in me without being too forward and being kept in the friend zone as such!!
i sure most of you would say move on and forget this chick but over time,shes a rare one that would be a keeper and if you want something i beleive you should go for it!!
What kind of game should i be playing indirectly to bring out what she really thinks and wants in us??
Again im no AFC and she knows that,if i was happy to be in a shitty relationship id be in one but i choose not to be because most dont have the right qualities to have a chance!!
Go hard or Go Home!!!