Re: We really are good friends
How do you know the waters cold if you don't jump in right? We got one life so live it.
That "zing" you're talking about I'm assuming means spark. So the spark, in my opinion, comes with...mystery. By being totally open and honest about how you feel about each other is great. I get that and it's rare. But it totally kills the mystery of it. And a big part of attraction is intrigue. Becoming her Rubiks cube that she wants to solve. It's just mentally stimulating when you confuse a woman and she tries to make sense of what kind of man you are. She'll love you for it.
It may be a bit tricky because she knows a lot about you, but I'm confident you can still create mystery. Work on building that intrigue and you'll get that "zing" you guys have been looking for.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."