For the past three weeks I have been sleeping with my best friend of 7 months. We don't want to label our relationship but its basically a FWB relationship. (hand holding, make outs, sex, studying together, hanging out together, etc.) She tells me she loves the sex, the comfort I give her, and that she finds me attractive.
Last night I asked her to go to the grad school formal and she told me that she was already asked by a new guy that likes her. I obviously did not take the news properly which caused us to talk about our situation. The conversation led to establishing a rule of sexual exclusivity, but that we are allowed to date others.
1) Is there anyway to convince this girl to be my gf? (can I disappear from her life for awhile or what do I need to do to get her romantically attracted to me?
2) Is this a doomed situation? Or is there hope?