My name is Orion. FOr the past 2 years i have been extremely introverted "kind of" there is this girl at work and she's what i consider a socially common girl. I WANT HER! but i am having massive issues in being able to talk to her, getting her to respond everything. I seriously can't even talk to common guys and joke around like they do, crack stupid jokes, i have trouble at even finding anything they even say funny. Around these type of people i am incredibly dull (at least i feel that i am.
- i can't start a conversation
- i can hold a conversation (if i get lucky in even starting one)
- i can't make these regular people jokes etcc..
Here's how i get down (this has most to do with it)
those 2 years i spent studying neurology, psychology and graphic design (i just read like 14 books in each subject). I don't have a problem with getting girls who are working on a PHD but i do have a problem getting girls who like to chill and smoke weed. Im this buff ripped shaved head hard ass looking thug (as so i have been called from these common girls) who cant get one of them for sh1t. I've got charm and the looks but i'm so boring to them. I like to talk to about the brain, science and serious issues in the world and how to solve them but these girls would rather talk about (what i have heard other guys say that makes them laugh) popular TV Shows, movies, celebrities, getting drunk and acting stupid etccc
I watch f*cking bloomberg, harvard and UCSD TV.
HELP ME, I WANT THIS GIRL!! PS she has a boyfriend but i know she thinks i'm really cute.
and yesterday i think i tried to hard. It felt like i talked way too much. I read in other forums that you should tease and crack jokes on what the girls is doing. I think i f*cked this up, i may have sounded a little too serious or not enthusiastic (or whatever) enough.
Guys i really want to have this girl. Please help me!