Re: In danger of LJBF -How to avert disaster?
I have one question: How was she the first night you two did it? How did you treat her after that? Because what I'm seeing may be the problem here is that she was having buyer's remorse, and you incorrectly responded to it. You also should not have let these moments of awkward silence carry on, because that only added onto the damage that was already happening.
Overall, it sounds like she simply left you because she couldn't handle the strain anymore. She had to make a choice, and even though you were flirty and fun, you did nothing to relieve the Tension that was between the two of you. All you did was just make it worse.
If I was you, and I wanted this girl, I would not go back to the way things were before. In fact, I would aim to build up comfort where comfort was missing before. By the sounds of it, however, this is beyond fixing at the moment. It's best if you just moved on. Latter on in your life, you may find an opportunity with her again.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X