In My Prime
So in my prime I had girls after me all the time and wouldn't leave me alone. I had 20 GF's during that time and only slept with 2 of them. I had my highschool sweetheart take her shirt off and I literally just looked at her with a blank stare and she left knowing I wouldn't sleep with her. I rejected her and had girls literally taking their shirts off for me, strippers inviting me to their houses when their BF's were gone, girls trying to sleep with me at house parties when I was with my GF, etc. But I never cared except for my GF who dumped me.
Some girl literally put her hands all over me and asked to sit in my lap and my GF got so mad and said we had to leave since that girl was trying to sleep with me. One time I came to a house party with one GF and left with a new one. It was legendary! But those days are gone. In my prime I literally had some hot girl at a Club walk up to me tell me my dancing was sexy and I just walked away from her. I had girls giving me yummy bracelets and never noticed till later, had girls literally falling all over me and give me their # like 3 times and never call, etc.
I don't know what happened but it reminds me a lot of the movie "Can't Hardly Wait" about he said how the game changed and how College chicks are all different than High School chicks and ain't really down to party like that but are all serious now. Now I am the one chasing girls. I would be all over situations like this if they happened now since I lacked the self-confidence then but now I have the self-confidence I just have to work for everything now. Now I have to bust my balls just to get a D2. But getting to a D2 is the hard part. Getting the # is not always the difficulty but rather getting a girl's compliance.
I knew nothing of not having compliance when I was younger since I always had things handed to me. Girls would laugh and giggle when I walk by now they just ignore me. I mean when I approach I do pretty good but getting a GF I feel like I am fighting a losing battle. The minute I screw up it all goes to pot and the girls get rough with me.
I love it when they play hard to get but that's all they play now a days. I don't know if this is something that happened just to me or to the dating scene in general. But yeah really don't like hooking up in Clubs. Girls will try to hook up with me now and I just don't even notice. I am more about getting a GF and sleeping with her. I mean I don't want to sleep with someone I will regret in the morning. Both of the 2 girls I slept with were awesome but just not sure I want to be doing all this F-closing since ONS and SNL are not my thing and all it will give me is a ego boost not a relationship.
So I think getting a GF is what I am going to focus on and forget about getting all the success of getting any girl I want. So I am really just learning the game to get better at getting a GF not to get laid. I had a ONS and it wasn't really my thing since I never called her after that. I mean people are saying girls chase now a days (like old times) but I have no clue how to get a girl I like to chase me since my stuff always backfires. I am always chasing them and get stuck thinking I am doing all the work. Is there any way to make this easier?