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Thread: Getting a GF has the Game changed?

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    Default Getting a GF has the Game changed?

    In My Prime
    So in my prime I had girls after me all the time and wouldn't leave me alone. I had 20 GF's during that time and only slept with 2 of them. I had my highschool sweetheart take her shirt off and I literally just looked at her with a blank stare and she left knowing I wouldn't sleep with her. I rejected her and had girls literally taking their shirts off for me, strippers inviting me to their houses when their BF's were gone, girls trying to sleep with me at house parties when I was with my GF, etc. But I never cared except for my GF who dumped me.

    Some girl literally put her hands all over me and asked to sit in my lap and my GF got so mad and said we had to leave since that girl was trying to sleep with me. One time I came to a house party with one GF and left with a new one. It was legendary! But those days are gone. In my prime I literally had some hot girl at a Club walk up to me tell me my dancing was sexy and I just walked away from her. I had girls giving me yummy bracelets and never noticed till later, had girls literally falling all over me and give me their # like 3 times and never call, etc.

    What Happened?
    I don't know what happened but it reminds me a lot of the movie "Can't Hardly Wait" about he said how the game changed and how College chicks are all different than High School chicks and ain't really down to party like that but are all serious now. Now I am the one chasing girls. I would be all over situations like this if they happened now since I lacked the self-confidence then but now I have the self-confidence I just have to work for everything now. Now I have to bust my balls just to get a D2. But getting to a D2 is the hard part. Getting the # is not always the difficulty but rather getting a girl's compliance.

    I knew nothing of not having compliance when I was younger since I always had things handed to me. Girls would laugh and giggle when I walk by now they just ignore me. I mean when I approach I do pretty good but getting a GF I feel like I am fighting a losing battle. The minute I screw up it all goes to pot and the girls get rough with me.

    I love it when they play hard to get but that's all they play now a days. I don't know if this is something that happened just to me or to the dating scene in general. But yeah really don't like hooking up in Clubs. Girls will try to hook up with me now and I just don't even notice. I am more about getting a GF and sleeping with her. I mean I don't want to sleep with someone I will regret in the morning. Both of the 2 girls I slept with were awesome but just not sure I want to be doing all this F-closing since ONS and SNL are not my thing and all it will give me is a ego boost not a relationship.

    So I think getting a GF is what I am going to focus on and forget about getting all the success of getting any girl I want. So I am really just learning the game to get better at getting a GF not to get laid. I had a ONS and it wasn't really my thing since I never called her after that. I mean people are saying girls chase now a days (like old times) but I have no clue how to get a girl I like to chase me since my stuff always backfires. I am always chasing them and get stuck thinking I am doing all the work. Is there any way to make this easier?

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    Default Re: Getting a GF has the Game changed?

    For a very surprising amount of guys this entire game is about finding that one special girl. Sure you get laid in the process and I would suggest going for that as well. I mean when you find that one girl you can't live without you want to be able to rock her world between the sheets. You want to be the best lay she has ever had. The best suggestion I can give you is to go out and hook up. Look for that girl as well but if you do not practice and get good then when you do finally run into her you likely won't be able to keep her. The Game is all about not only getting girls and getting laid but it is also about KEEPING girls. If you meet an awesome chick and then go AFC on her she will dump you and you won't get her back. For me personally I want to find a girl to eventually marry and have kids with but I also want experience. I am still new to the game and have only had 5 lays in my life at 22 years old. I have had 3 since i started learning this two of which happened within the first 15 minutes of meeting the girls. When I do find that one girl I want to be the best guy I can possibly be for her inside the bedroom and out. If the 2 girls you had mentioned are the only girls you have been with then when you meet a quality women that you want as a girlfriend then you likely will not be able to satisfy her. At least not as well as some of the other guys she has been with. Maybe I'm wrong but all I know to do is learn every aspect of the game that you can. It will give you some great life experiences, some kickass stories, and make you your best self. Also don't let chicks play hard to get. You are the one who is the catch. YOU play hard to get. If you let her play hard to get she will see that as you putting her on a pedestal like every other lame a$$ guy she has blown off that night. Hope this helps. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Getting a GF has the Game changed?

    The game has changed because it's called emotional maturity lol. Girls wise up to old games and learn to not act desperate and let guys chase. In other words....they're smarter. You mean a 27 year old is more mature than a 17 year old? Well when you put it like that it seems obvious doesn't it.

    So your game has to change as well. I understand your goal of wanting a gf and not wanting to just sleep around. But I do have my opinions. Cause I'm one of those "he thinks he knows it all" type people.

    First: While getting a gf is an ok goal I think you should strive to find a good woman. I've reached a point where I can get a gf easy. But it won't be with someone of a high caliber. Whether it's her personality or she looks like a whale (no offense if you like whales). It's easy to get a gf. But not always the one that you want.

    Second: Your options are not just one night stands and a gf. You can casually date just one woman. Almost like she is your gf, but you're still single and can explore if you want. There's no labels other than dating. You can even date multiple at once. You gain experience each time which makes you a better man for when you do meet Ms.Right. These are flexible options.

    Hope this helps. Now it's time to start learning our tools and techniques. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Getting a GF has the Game changed?

    Why were you going to strip clubs when you were underage? I feel like this stories has a couple holes.
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