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Thread: Does she mean what I think she means?

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    Default Does she mean what I think she means?

    I've been really close friends with this girl since about september. We slept together once but after a day or two I decided that I want to just be friends so I stopped having sex and overly flirty (I'm usually a little flirty with everyone when I talk so there was a bit of Kino and innuendo but nothing over the top).

    She's had a boyfriend the past 2 or 3 months and they recently broke up because of distance and she text this to me today. And I don't know how much of value this is but people always seem to think we're dating.

    Her: *name* is single ! we need to hit the mo farken bars !

    Me: Awwwwwww snap!!

    Her: ;P

    Me: How's Saturday haha

    Her: aha unfortunately I am on lockdown until I find a job (well I have on already but need another ! )

    Her: so I can't saturday , but we have 4 months bro !

    Her: just thought I'd update you on my single status

    Me: Well I work like 12 hours a day haha

    Me: 4 months is definitely enough time to have some fun!

    Me: Good to know hahaha

    Her: aha rough life

    Her: ohyeeah for sure

    After that we just got caught up (haven't spoken to her in about a week). She's a great girl, smart, fun, pretty, and we're best friends.

    The only problem I can think of is that we'll be rooming together starting september. Obviously when we decided to live together it was from a point of plutonic friendship. I've had sex buddies before so I'm fine not letting sex make things awkward.

    Anyways, I'm taking the first things she sent me to mean "I'm single, lets fark, maybe more."

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    Depends on if you have this type of relation with her always. If this is something new then yea it sounds like she definitely is hinting at it. She wants to have fun with you and suggests bars but she couldn't even do it anyway. And the updating you on the single status is very big indicator. If you want a fuck buddy, test her out. Hang out with her, game her, invite her back to your place/her place and close.

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    pure friendship...

    here's the evidence...
    1) she called you "bro"
    2) she's so close to you, she's celebrating her singlehood, yet she won't/can't go out with you. If she really wnated to, she'd even do a coffee or something short and cheap... or if you had faster thought process other than farking, then maybe you could have suggested it.
    3) if she's displaying more obvious ioi's, then she would have called/texted you during this past week, which she didn't. anyone has time to shoot a flirty text.

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    She definitely giving you ioi's.... She's saying "bro" to remind you how fun/close you guys used to be. Plus, you don't just tell someone "guess who's single again let's hang out" without at least some ulterior motive.

    If you want it... She's all yours.

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    What I got from reading this is she let you know twice in the same convo that she was single. If you've hooked up with her once, I'd like to think she obviously likes you. She could be telling truth about being on lockdown. Don't take that as a negative. Also don't wait around for her to propose another meet date. Take action soon though before you're stuck in the friendzone.

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    Idk how he could be considered in a pure friendship when he already had sex with her and had previous intimate interactions...howev er depending on how the OP would act(obviously not AFC) shes obviously hinting at something since she said she was single again.

    Sounds like shes trying to mend things(not that they were broken) up for when you two are to room together and to get familiar being around you again....since you said she was with some other guy for a period of time.

    How it goes from there is how you send/receive signals and operate on those.

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    Default Re: Does she mean what I think she means?

    It definitely isn't a caution flag.....
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