I was at an adult sex toy store earlier today and this super cute and really REALLY cool girl helped me pick out a male sex toy and some leg/arm restraints. After I paid we talked for a while (30-45 min) and it was great the whole time - no low points in the conversation. We talked about:
-what toys/BDSM gear her and I enjoy;
-what we BDSM stuff want to try with other people;
-awesome pornos that she enjoys(fashionistas and other hardcore BDSM porn);
-what get's us excited/horny; and
-other misc. things about BDSM and each other's personal lives/wants/desires
Basically, it was a very sexual atmosphere and it wasn't awkward atl all - this was the best conversation I have ever had with a girl and she put in more effort than I did. Also, she would re-initiate conversation if we stopped talking for more than 30 seconds (I believe that is an ioi, correct?)
Then, when I was about to leave, she said:
"come see me again some time", made eye contact and smiled.
I then asked:
"what days do you work" and, after she explained her schedule, she asked:
"Hey, what's your name?" then approached me and put out her hand for a handshake (I regret not kissing the back of her hand like in movies but I missed my chance for that). She then told me her name (which I can't remember...).
Would her asking me to come back specifically to see her be an IOI? At the very least it means she enjoyed my company/our conversation, I guess.
Also, I just read that a girl asking you for your name is an IOI - is that true?
I'm thinking about asking her to go for a walk with me during my lunch break which will be in public (less pressure on her/easy escape if she is uncomfortable) and it will set a time restraint. (NOTE: the area we both work in is great for tourists/friends/couples to walk around and there is a river near-by that we could walk to and relax by while chatting).
I just need to know if these are IOI's so I can decide how to approach her next time I see her (probably on Monday). I checked a thread that lists a bunch of IOI's and I'm pretty sure she has given a few but I didn't see anything about her asking me to go see her again.
Thanks in advance for any help you can provide.