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Thread: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help me

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    Default party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help me

    hello fellow pua's! so straight to the point. iv'e been looking to kiss this girl for 2 weeks and last night i went to a party that she attended to. the time went and she walked outside and i followed without her noticing. i see her and her girlfriend sitting on a bench and a creapy guy sits next to her and i see how she is not liking his company. so i walked torwards her grabbed her hand and told her that i needed to talk to her. i asked her if she had a good time, she smiled and said yes i do! then i told her that i had been waiting to kiss her, and whats her excuse to not let me. she said she didnt had any excuse but only 1 kiss. it turned out to a makeout, so we madeout for like 30 seconds and was the best " kiss " of my life. the day after she wrote on her blog that she really liked slow sexy kisses. and i felt i succeded with giving her that. so i wrote her that she was a good time last night and we should do it some other time, and she responded ur cute. oh you think we should ? . and i told her to call me sometime. and she told me she would! now iv'e been thinking of her for couple of days and really want her to give me a call etc. i never had a girlfriend before so im really unexperienced i dont like falling in love but i think i slightly did it again. but this time i wanna succeed. she is really girlfriend material super cute and fun. what to do now? and how do i escalate from this? please help me. i'd do anythng!

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    You know what for the rec never tell a girl to call you she may be tempted to test you by let you wait or may not be invested enough since she feels you are on the other end probably waiting.or maybe some other reason.you want the dynamic to play in your favour.In a nutshell lead.

    This you might have read but your journey shouldn't end here.the fact that she kissed you that fast doesn't mean she is girlfriend material.
    Again even though you were direct and confident about it you should never ask a girl subtly to kiss, just kiss close

    What to do now?
    Go out and meet other girls.seriously you need to shake this one its mode off.it doesn't matter if she likes you because you have been invested emotionally as in thought about her a bit and you may communicate that negative energy.a.k.a neediness

    freeze her out for two days then call.if you are not comfortable with running game start your journey immediately.your girl has almost every skill to handle most men she want what of you.

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    You know what for the rec never tell a girl to call you she may be tempted to test you by let you wait or may not be invested enough since she feels you are on the other end probably waiting.or maybe some other reason.you want the dynamic to play in your favour.In a nutshell lead.

    This you might have read but your journey shouldn't end here.the fact that she kissed you that fast doesn't mean she is girlfriend material.
    Again even though you were direct and confident about it you should never ask a girl subtly to kiss, just kiss close
    Sorry, but I'm calling you out on this. Mystery's big kiss close is straight up asking, "Do you want to kiss me?" I actually think this guy's k-close was pretty decent and got the job done. Taking control and being direct--while the better approach--is not the only approach.

    The rest of your advice is bang on. I don't think this girl is a lost cause. The problem is that you put the pressure on her by saying "call me." That's wrong. You should be calling her for two reasons: (1) it shows you have alpha traits such as initiative, and (2) it puts you in the driver's seat instead of her. As it stands, you're now sitting there waiting for her to contact you. You've kind of handcuffed yourself because if you call her now it displays neediness.

    So, like HardRock said, freeze her out (if you haven't already, which isn't clear from your post). Then contact her and see if she wants to do something.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    yepp i have to agree with you that tell her to call me wasnt the best choice at all. but i still felt like she didnt wanna admit she liked it but she dont wanna deny it. i told her " pff dont play around i felt that u liked it!"
    and she was " well, okay! " like she didnt deny but didnt admit.
    then she told me " i will call you " but i after i wrote the message i knew it was a big fail im gonna think twice next time. i wanna think that shes gonna message me but i know she wont. also it could be a Sh1t Test cause ive heard some girls have this bullshit 3 day rule. ive frozen her out since sunday so im gonna try freeze her for one week and see whats going on. we usually end up at the same parties so we'll see what happens with her on them! and about the kiss close. i actually kinda like it. its abit beta to say " iv'e been dying to kiss you " but ive solved so many k-closes with that following up with " whats ur excuse to not let me!" and although she told me only 1. but then wanted more when i pulled back i take as a big ioi. and the fact that she wrote that she loved boys who kissed slowly on her blog made me think it had a winning strike on her. she seems flirty but sh1t testing as fark. but imma freeze her and talk to diffrent girls and see whats up. thanks for your feedback!

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    You know what for the rec never tell a girl to call you she may be tempted to test you by let you wait or may not be invested enough since she feels you are on the other end probably waiting.or maybe some other reason.you want the dynamic to play in your favour.In a nutshell lead.

    This you might have read but your journey shouldn't end here.the fact that she kissed you that fast doesn't mean she is girlfriend material.
    Again even though you were direct and confident about it you should never ask a girl subtly to kiss, just kiss close

    What to do now?
    Go out and meet other girls.seriously you need to shake this one its mode off.it doesn't matter if she likes you because you have been invested emotionally as in thought about her a bit and you may communicate that negative energy.a.k.a neediness

    freeze her out for two days then call.if you are not comfortable with running game start your journey immediately.your girl has almost every skill to handle most men she want what of you.
    yepp i have to agree with you that tell her to call me wasnt the best choice at all. but i still felt like she didnt wanna admit she liked it but she dont wanna deny it. i told her " pff dont play around i felt that u liked it!"
    and she was " well, okay! " like she didnt deny but didnt admit.
    then she told me " i will call you " but i after i wrote the message i knew it was a big fail im gonna think twice next time. i wanna think that shes gonna message me but i know she wont. also it could be a Sh1t Test cause ive heard some girls have this bullsh1t 3 day rule. ive frozen her out since sunday so im gonna try freeze her for one week and see whats going on. we usually end up at the same parties so we'll see what happens with her on them! and about the kiss close. i actually kinda like it. its abit beta to say " iv'e been dying to kiss you " but ive solved so many k-closes with that following up with " whats ur excuse to not let me!" and although she told me only 1. but then wanted more when i pulled back i take as a big ioi. and the fact that she wrote that she loved boys who kissed slowly on her blog made me think it had a winning strike on her. she seems flirty but sh1t testing as fark. but imma freeze her and talk to diffrent girls and see whats up. thanks for your feedback!

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Sorry, but I'm calling you out on this. Mystery's big kiss close is straight up asking, "Do you want to kiss me?" I actually think this guy's k-close was pretty decent and got the job done. Taking control and being direct--while the better approach--is not the only approach.

    The rest of your advice is bang on. I don't think this girl is a lost cause. The problem is that you put the pressure on her by saying "call me." That's wrong. You should be calling her for two reasons: (1) it shows you have alpha traits such as initiative, and (2) it puts you in the driver's seat instead of her. As it stands, you're now sitting there waiting for her to contact you. You've kind of handcuffed yourself because if you call her now it displays neediness.

    So, like HardRock said, freeze her out (if you haven't already, which isn't clear from your post). Then contact her and see if she wants to do something.
    yes i love this kiss close. i kinda feel beta saying that " ive been dying to kiss you" but i like the whole thing. i took it as big ioi when she told me only 1 but she wanting more even when i pulled off. this message was a big fail. what i thought i was i didnt wanna sound like i cared about her, and that i wanted to look busy so if she is intressed she'd call me cause i didnt bother. but so wrong on so many levels. ive been freezing her since sunday so im gonna try atleast freeze her for a week. not even eyecontact rly. and see whats up. i wanna beilive that she just Sh1t Test me cause ive heard girls that had " 3 day rules " and some other stupid shit. but i kinda know she wont call me. 1 of the reasons, she is attractive which mean other boys will also be talking to her. but we meet alot at different parties so we'll see whats gonna happen on them aswell! i hope its not over with this girl but if it is. what the fuck, i mean in 2 weeks ive kissed another girl! :PP

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    Default Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help

    yepp i have to agree with you that tell her to call me wasnt the best choice at all. but i still felt like she didnt wanna admit she liked it but she dont wanna deny it. i told her " pff dont play around i felt that u liked it!"
    and she was " well, okay! " like she didnt deny but didnt admit.
    then she told me " i will call you "
    Lets be real it was a kiss and girls like that.as long as it not sloppy,too fast, or nervous etc.they will think its cuul.theres is also teasing and the anticipation to the first kiss but yh.

    One thing that may kill the effect of a close is you talking about it and asking her whether she liked it. it may come across like your asking for her approval.Instead focus on the next bridge.moving things forward.

    It good to know you are not focusing on this on.yep always keep your options open.girls have a ton.even if you are exclusive may talk to girls innocently.


    @TheDuke
    ..mystery's kiss close wasn't that bad even though i haven't used it in a while.notice the way he phrased it too and the comback.you're right on that it almost works

    Again him asking her in that way and his choice of words was the case but he has moved on since then.

    you may update this thread.


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