Re: party kissclose this girl. now actually starting to feel something.help
Sorry, but I'm calling you out on this. Mystery's big kiss close is straight up asking, "Do you want to kiss me?" I actually think this guy's k-close was pretty decent and got the job done. Taking control and being direct--while the better approach--is not the only approach.
Originally Posted by HardRock
The rest of your advice is bang on. I don't think this girl is a lost cause. The problem is that you put the pressure on her by saying "call me." That's wrong. You should be calling her for two reasons: (1) it shows you have alpha traits such as initiative, and (2) it puts you in the driver's seat instead of her. As it stands, you're now sitting there waiting for her to contact you. You've kind of handcuffed yourself because if you call her now it displays neediness.
So, like HardRock said, freeze her out (if you haven't already, which isn't clear from your post). Then contact her and see if she wants to do something.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."