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Thread: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

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    Default Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    I am in professional school and about a year ago, I began talking to this girl. We slept together without clothes and everything before but never had sex. She told me about 6 months ago she had feelings for me that she thinks would never go away but can't date me (bc I am not indian like her). We got into a big fight and didn't talk for months. Then she came up to me on the street with a huge smile about 4 months ago. She has been flirty with me ever since and was texting me almost every day (she was always the first to initiate contact). Then for my birthday the other week, she took me to the club and was holding my hand the whole night and we were dancing for hours together.

    But, here's the shocker- she came over to study a few days ago and we had the greatest time together. She was laughing so much. But then she gets a call from her friend and she leaves the room and talked about this other guy. So I asked her if she had a bf and she said yes, you did not know? I said no, but kept it cool like it didn't affect me. She then was kind of giggling and I was like wtf but kept my cool.

    I then did something kinda bad- checked her fb messages when she stepped out and found out who the guy was. She had sex with him and a few weeks ago she said that he's everything she wants and they were sending pics of naughty costumes to each other. It really hurt me and I shouldn't have looked at her messages but I did. This kid lives in another state back where she is from and she is there now for break. What should I do?

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    Default Re: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    you missed your boat long ago sir, you lay in bed with her both naked. that was your ship.

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    Default Re: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    How often do you communicate talk/text with her now that she is back home in another state? Who initiates it?

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    Default Re: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    Girls will put you into one of two categories: A friend, or a guy she wants to have sex with. If she doesn't put you in the latter right from the start its really hard to get her to view you differently. She probably has feelings for you... just not sexual feelings anymore. Learn to ignore what a women is telling you logically. Women will hold off sex and go on dates with guys but then have someone on the side they are sleeping with. It's a deceitful, cruel reality. Best advice is to let it go and move on. Adopt an abundance mentality and date other women. Good luck mate!

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    Default Re: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    Lmao you did something we men aren't suppose to do. ( don't look at women's phone, fb, IM or any of that because there will always be things that we will regret finding.) it's not over, if you still want to sleep with we you can because obviously she flirts with you even though she has a bf.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Very unique situation- does she still have feelings for me?

    Yep, the opportunity passed you by long ago. There's still a chance, but very small and not worth pursuing IMO.

    Women crave two things. First, in romantic relationships women want a man who is dominant and will control the situation. You clearly failed in that regard. Second, outside of romantic relationships women want to be dominant and control other men. You see this all the time, a woman has a boyfriend who she adores and would never cheat on, but on the side she keeps a handful of guys that she leads on because she likes the thrill of being chased and having this control over men. She can't get that thrill from her romantic relationship, so instead, she turns to other guys--in this case, you.

    My advice, cut contact and stop letting her play you. She's not even LJBF material because she's clearly leading you on for her own pleasure.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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